I'm new here and assume this topic has come up countless times. My girlfriend of almost a year won't give me a blow job, because well she just "doesn't want to". I've asked numerous times for a blowie and every time the answer is a straight NO. I really like this girl and am growing frustrated with the fact that she just won't do it. I've asked what was wrong and she responded "nothing, I just don't want to". I assumed that she thought it was gross. But she said it's not that. So I guess my question would be a few things. What could be a reason for her not wanting to give one. And also is it wrong of me to get angry at the fact that she won't do it? Zibzabzoobiedebop!
Maybe she's not very good at it n would rather not try than disappoint. Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
true, i wonder if youve gone down on her yet. a crucial detail you forgot to mention. regardless, here is a tip that may work in achieving a blowjob from your significant other. First, make sure she is on birth control so you don't need a condom, then fuck the shit out of her, and midfuck after giving her a mindblowing orgasm, tell her you want to stick your dick in her mouth. if you've done everything correctly she should be horny enough to accept Le penis into her mouth. a horny bitch'll do anythin
I have never given any of my partners a blowjob. Just because 'I don't want to'. Maybe she is uncomfortable, maybe it is not enjoyable to her, ect. Whatever the reason you should respect that. Sexual acts should be pleasurable for all parties involved. Stop harassing her. If you need a blowjob that badly, dump her and find a girl who enjoys it.
damn i find that so weird. it's like those people that are cool to hangout with but just dont wana toke cuz,... you know, they "don't feel like tryin it." if you really love a man/woman, i cant understand why you wouldnt wana go down on her in sexual bliss.
Because as I said I believe that sexual acts should be enjoyable to all parties involved. Has nothing to do with love. Or if you go the love route, why would you pressure a loved one into doing something they didn't want to?
because if you love someone you shouldnt give two shits about suckin a lil bit of their skin to make them feel good, just my two cents. I'd be much less hesitant going down on a woman i love than some random hooker i'm horny for. Any reason they wouldn't want to (other than being raped or having an action which portrayed oral sex very negatively to them) i believe is silly and ignorant. it's like people not wanting to try new foods, try new drugs, try new things. generally they will suck a dick/clit/try a new food/new whatever and be like oh that wasnt so bad. i would never date someone close minded enough to not feel comfortable giving a blowjob, because that would mean they probably are close minded enough not to try other lovely things of life.
Then you wouldn't mind if your girlfriend wanted to peg you? I mean it is just a dildo in your ass. To each there own but no one should pressure their sexual partner into something they are not wanting to do. As I said ... he needs one that bad .. dump her and find someone else.
ok that's a little different lmfao. if you really wana know i wouldn't mind but i'd get to shove it up her ass right after. or my dick. i like a kinky bitch But seriously, suckin a dick is nothing like shoving a fuckin dildo up your ass. Every day people eat bananas and suck lollipops. it's a natural motion. Most people dont shove fuckin rubber rods up their ass. Putting a little erect cylinder of tasteless skin (ideally) in your mouth has a lot less shit to it than puttin a foreign object up your asshole. no pun intended
You will never change my mind that it is wrong to force your sexual partner to do something they don't want to. And that is the bottom line.
Sounds like you have a lot of experience with giving blowjobs and having dildos up your ass. It's nice of you to share your knowledge built from long hours of practice.
and that is where your ignorance lies. They say ignorance is the absence of logic, and i dont understand the logic of you not wanting to give a blowjob. maybe if you shared your personal reasons it would clear the air a bit
I don't understand the logic of you not wanting to be pegged. I mean your ass is just an orifice like your mouth, and it is just a erect cylinder of tasteless plastic. Been having sex for a long time, with many partners, I know what I like and how I like it. Plain and simple.
The answer is simple. Three step program. First step, dump her. She's never gonna suck your dick. She's not into it. Secondly, wash that area between your ball sack and your thigh really well...then wash it again. Third, try new girl. Repeat if no success.