OK First i'm going to say NO i'm not a 'slut' .. I have not been with anyone for over 2 years, & haven't wanted to be .. I started going back to school in december 2013. I have to take my 10 since I dropped out in highschool before I can get into welding. I had to go through an 'intake' class which is 5 weeks so they can determine where I should be placed and which classes to be placed in. Anyways, to the point.. Lol. There's a guy that was in my intake with me & we didn't really talk at all for the first few weeks except if I had to work with him on an assignment because he sat beside me. He's not really the type of person I could ever see myself being friends with or hanging out with for that matter.. We started talking one day & I found out he smoked weed so we went and blazed up a few times @ lunch hour. Anyway we started hanging out outside of school like he would come over or i'd go there and get high & chill out watch a movie or something.. It never got physical unless I was in a terrible mood i'd ask for a hug and a few times he drove all the way to my house to hug me lol. and then just leave We both have kids, he has a 4 year old boy that he has full custody of and I have a 2 1/2 year old boy that I have full custody of. I started having strong feelings toward him & i made him aware of that right when I realized it lol. He told me he feels comfortable around me and likes seeing me and is attracted to me but doesnt want a relationship blah blah blah but neither do I. I really have an insanely strong sexual attraction to him but we're both super shy so we're both hesitant to make the 'first move' so to speak lol.. We talk over text though like he's made it pretty clear that he's down to sleep with me. and that excites me .. lol. He came over lastnight and we had a few drinks & watched a movie but then he left and i was extremely disappointed because I thought lastnight may be the night lol he is not like most guys he doesn't come on super strong and doesn't really make his feelings fully known but he'll beat around the bush and say things like if you wanted me to stay should have locked your arms (when i hugged him) or grabbed his arm and told him to stay lol. but for me i've never really had to be the one that hmm how do i say.. INITIATED? anything. He is supposed to come over tonight and i'm pretty sure he knows why I want him to come over lol but I am just starting to feel insecure about the situation like is it a good idea, we've already become pretty close friends and can be comfortable with eachother but it bothers me that he's never ever made a 'move'. i know he's attracted to me which makes it even more confusing? I honestly fantasize that he takes me to his house every lunch hour (like we have been, but just to get high) and we fuck & go back to school.. lol. There's nobody else I want to do this with and nobody else that I feel sexually attracted to than him, weird thing is he is not my type AT ALL. we're complete opposites.. I have not posted on here in a while but everytime I had a problem i'd always post here and get the answers I want lol. I guess there's no question reallly but I want to know what people's opinions are have you ever been in the same boat or are you IN the same boat?? Lol .. I don't think i have left anything out but if you have any questions then just ask ... Sorry if this is totally weird but i'm so confused. Also, I'm pretty content on the no dating thing like i'd love to just chill and get high and watch movies, and obviously 'FUCK' lol.. and pretty sure he feels the same ...
waaaaaaait! so you're telling me, that the girl is the one getting friend zoned? hahaha Sent from my SGH-I337M using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Troll. A GIRL suggesting fwb. And shes being friend zoned. Ok, well I'm the pope. Sarcasm up there ^ Sent from my GT-I9505 using Grasscity Forum mobile app
Yea just tell him u wanna fuck or just kiss him and see where it goes like wtf get over it what's so wrong with u starting it if that's what u really want, come on I Smoke weed 4/20-7 😎
Yea dude, just kiss him or something. Coming from a male I can't see myself turning that down. And if he's shy as you say then that's probably why he hasn't made a move; initiate.
Lol it already happened last weekend. Were just gonna stay regular friends. Hr got kind of distant on me but when he realized I was still down to chill and just blaze and noy talk about it or make it awkward its back to normal Now lol Sent from my HUAWEI Y300-0151 using Grasscity Forum mobile app