It's been like this for awhile now, and I don't entirely know what to do to change it, but here goes...
My sex drive is insane, I could go multiple times a day for days. And days. And then some more days. My boyfriend's stamina has seemed to have dropped off a bit since the beginning, and it's like he gets too turned on to be able to hold up long enough for me to finish. I feel like part of the problem is foreplay. He'll happily accept a blowjob from me, but then wants to go right into sex. The only time he ever fingers me or goes down is when I dress up in lingerie, and even then it's only for a brief moment. I know the problem isn't hygiene related, I take extra time in the shower to make sure I'm extra clean, and completely shaven. I know the problem can't be taste, it's never been a problem in the past for any guys (or girls, for that matter.) But I don't understand why he wouldn't enjoy pleasing me as much as I love pleasing him. I always read posts up here about how much guys enjoy pleasuring their girl, and I don't understand why he doesn't touch me. He says I never ask him to eat me out, but he never has to ask me to go down on him?It's pretty much gotten to the point that when he does give me foreplay, I'm too worried about him not enjoying it to get any pleasure from it. Understandably, some women have some fucked-up looking vaginas, but I mean, shit. From what I've heard, and what I think myself, I have a beautiful vag. He gets annoyed when I frequently try to get him in the mood, but he's the only one getting any pleasure. Don't get me wrong, it feels amazing when we have sex, it's just not long enough, or I haven't been 'prepared' enough to achieve my orgasm. I understand that sometimes your hand, jaw, or tongue can get tiresome, but I never stop when I'm on top and my legs are about to give out, or when my throat gets sore. I go through leg pain equivalent to next-day squat pain if I have to, without any problems.
Am I doing something wrong? How can I change things? Any stamina tips for men?