Can you get rid of a fetish?

Discussion in 'Sex, Love & Relationships' started by Tastytrichomes, Jul 16, 2013.

  1. We all know it's possible to gain a fetish, but can you get rid of one? I don't think you can entirely, part of your specific attraction will be buried in your subconscious desires.

     
  2. what is this fetish that you desire to eliminate in your life, op.
     
  3. Yes you can because I have actually done this. 
     
    When I was like 13-14 I used to have this kinda weird fetish.
     
    When I finally got laid like 16 1/2 I think I relized im prolly never gonna be able to fulfill that fetish so I gave up on it.
     
    Now I dont really have many fetishes, im pretty much kewl with anything thats not too freaky like shiting on stuff or vomiting on things.
     
  4.  
    when choosing proper pornography, disregard anything japanese
     
  5. nope.  you're gonna be sticking those eels up your ass for the rest of your life. :( I'm sorry bro.
     
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    I just need someone to share the pleasure with
     
  7. Nope ive had a serious stomach fetish since i was about 5-6 years old. Still as strong as ever. I have a few fetishes that have never been satisfied (actually none of them have been satisfied) but i still fantasize about it daily
     
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    stomach fetish?
     
    i dont have anything i want to get rid of, im just asking out of curiosity
     
  9. So many fetishes so little crossed off my fetishes list :-(
     
  10. tell me about your sick fetishes
     
  11. i like throatfuckin, that shit's hot na mean
     
  12. I don't have any fetishes, I always think of them as weird shit like getting a boner from feet or elbows.
     
    Pyromaniacs jack off to their arson.
     
  13. Hah that made me lol
     
  14. The weirder the better, dude!
     
  15. My only real "fetish" if you can even call it that, is big butts. As for that, I have only one thing to say. 
     
    I like big butt and I cannot lie.
    I'll like 'em til the day I die
     
  16. #16 Zera, Jul 20, 2013
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    I know that it is possible to "lose" a fetish by getting bored of it, outgrowing it, discovering something new that's better, or--if it's one that you obsess over in fantasy but have never actually done--it is possible to try it, be dissapointed, and never want that again.
     
    But I don't know about getting rid of fetishes on purpose. Sounds to me like that would be like trying to forget an unpleasant event, or trying to get a song to stop being stuck in your head. The more you try to not think about it, the more your brain goes there. Like when someone says "don't think about elephants" and suddenly they're the only animal you can think of. 
     
     
    I've got a knife fetish--since before I even had any idea about sex. Knives always got me excited, and I always liked them. And yeah, they do turn me on. I've done knife play in the past as a sexual act, and it was awesome, but It's not like I need it to get off or anything. I've only done it 3 times ever--it's really a special occasion thing. That's the weirdest one I have, and I really don't think it's ever going away. I'll always like knives, and be oddly turned on by them.
     
    I used to have a ting for playing with rope during sexy time, but I did lose that one. I didnt lose it on purpose, I just got bored of it. When I'm the one tied up, it wasnt as much fun as I thought, I can't move to make things better, and I usually end up bored and annoyed. Also, somehow, there are always accidents with something when I'm tied. If I'm the one tying, it gets a little boring. I run out of stuff to do, and it's just not as fun as I thought. Perhaps it's just cause the one i was playing with wasn't so much into being tied up, but was willing to try. It might be more fun with someone who was more into it, idk
     
  17. Knife play? Wow that is going a bit far dont you think?  Take up an extreme sport or something.
     
  18. Yep, something about a girls stomach drives me crazy. I cant help myself
     

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