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Am I a bad person for wanting to smoke?

Discussion in 'Apprentice Marijuana Consumption' started by CaliforniaKing, Jul 9, 2013.

  1.  I live a fairly drug-free lifestyle, I'm not into smoking cigarettes or drinking or do any other kind of drugs, except for pot. I haven't smoked it a lot, only afew times over the last year or so.
     
    About a month back a friend gave me some that I smoked by myself and I really enjoyed it. But since then I haven't really been able to get into the smoking lifestyle.
     
    I asked that person who gave me some to give me his dealer's # and he said hell no, his guy is too suspicious. I have another friend who buys from his friend, and when I asked him to introduce me he kinda shrugged it off and I don't wanna bring it up again because we don't see each other often and I don't wanna create a bigger riff by involving drugs.

    And I have another friend who has a friend that buys from someone else, I asked him if he'd take 20 bucks from me and get 20 dollars worth from his friend next time he saw him, and turned me down. The money was part of a larger sum given to me by my mom obviously not for buying weed instead for gas, food, and stuff but come on? I asked him if he could just give me a smidgen of some weed his friend left at his house for free, just enough to get stoned for one night, and he turned me down.

    Do you guys have or have you had this kind of negative reaction when trying to get a hookup? I mean I'm friends with a bunch of people who smoke but the moment you bring up wanting to smoke everyone gets very hostile and annoyed, I'm just trying to make my life easier by finding contacts through friends instead of risking my safety by going out and trying to mingle with less desireable company. 

    Its really a bummer because I'm just trying to have some discreet, safe fun and I feel like the world is trying to tell me I'm a junkie or something for just wanting something to take the edge off. 

     
  2. Yes. You are the most horrible person alive. Nobody would miss you. Honestly if i was you i would just get life over with already. Lol.
     
  3. #3 Domo OG, Jul 9, 2013
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    ya dude your a pot junkie.. 
     
    in all seriousness you just have to let everyone know your serious about smoking. Ask around other friends and find someone who will sell to you, it cant be that hard right. buy a nice piece and just try to be around your friends whenever they go to smoke. If they're going to be so hypocritical about smoking then maybe you should find some other guys to toke with.
     
  4. #4 initiation, Jul 9, 2013
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    None of my friends would leave me hanging like that. 
     
    And if they get annoyed that you're simply asking for some weed then that's a problem on its own.
     
    Find new people you can smoke with and find hookups from people who aren't lazy as fuck.
     
  5. in reference to the title question, you're really asking us if you're a bad person for making decisions regarding your own life?  that's something for you to decide, not strangers on the internet.

    however, your story seems strange to me. i've heard plenty of times about people who get turned down because they seem sketchy, but generally this doesn't happen multiple times.

    but it seems like you're starting your search too far from the dealer.  generally people who buy from friends are less likely to help you out because the friend probably doesnt move very much in the first place.  

    the search to find a dealer out of the blue will be tough, but i promise you that once you get someone to sell to you, you'll be swimming in the stuff since nobody will have a reason to be suspicious of you (except those who have never met you, obviously).

    i'd just keep doing what you're doing, and hopefully one of your friends is willing to help out.  failing that, you might have to go look for your own hookup (which in my experience is the shittiest way to go).

    real sorry to hear about this problem OP, i'd help you out in a second if i could.  for reference, where do you live?  it seems like you might live in the kind of place where they would give drug dealers the death penalty if they could, considering how paranoid that first dealer you mentioned is.
     
  6. helll fucking no man, your not a bad person.
    A lot of people are stingy with their hookups, usually though they want them to go through you to make some free bud or money on the side, not just straight turn you down. Just ask them to at the least give him your number and a reference to their dealer (ask if its cool with the dealer, which it should be, a reliable contactless client whos buying small? easy profit) 
     
  7. You have dick friends. Get at a new dealer
     
  8. grow your own in a forest or some place hidden ive been doing that since i was like 14 im 18 now and my parents are cool with it so i grow at home but it isnt that hard to grow
     
  9. +1 for grow your own, so much cheaper, easier, and better quality, just ask for some bagseed from your friends, go plant in a forest like the dude above me said
     
  10. #10 mavsfan, Jul 9, 2013
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    hit up your friends asking "do you want to smoke?" What you want to do now is completely mislead them into thinking you also have weed! When you guys get ready to pack the bowl just be like, oh no  I don't have weed and blame all of your friends until they pack the bowl for you. Rinse and repeat until they get annoyed and give you a #. haha. jp
     
     
    ( my close friend really helped me out when I started because he attends a regional university nearby and I went out-of-state. I think he understood by the time I was back that I had no connections, but enjoyed to smoke the herb...
     
    Maybe you need to be like this, in all seriousness, "guys, want to smoke a joint or w/e? On me... But I need someone's help with a connect." Bata-bing bam. These things do seem awkward though, I feel ya.
     
  11. A junkie is a person that associates with hard drugs, Cannabis is a soft drug so don't worry about it. 
     
    1.) Use good judgement 
    2.) Don't be sketchy
    3.) Be chill
     
    If the people are being knuckleheads, then keep on searching until you find reliable people that would deal with you. And oh yeah, be responsible and use Common Sense. 
     
  12. no dude, but if your "friends" are giving you such a hard time... id re-evaluate who im chilling with........ i was the last in my group of friends to start smoking, and for them it was almost a mission to get me stoned, and was never left hanging whenever i needed some.......... sure it took awhile to establish a solid connect, which i now have, if you try asking the same ppl again and get the same shit, then you sir have some beat and horrible friends...........
     


  13. I had the same issue, but I never question my self, I just called my friends idiots and lazy for not helping me get a hook up, one day, 1 random day I was looking info about BHO-Wax on YouTube on my phone, and he asked me what it was, I haven't even started smoking and I knew more about weed than he did, this is when I asked him again and he started to buy from his contact and sell to me, he also refuses to give me his dealer # or try to all hook up for smokes to get to know each other, either way, majority of the guys I know that didn't hook me up I stop talking to them unless they contact me. IM not gonna be friends with a bunch of assholes that won't help me out.

    If they don't trust or help me with simple buds then screw them. Knowledge is power and they got left behind in the smoke cloud. Now I have a pretty steady supply, even if I still don't have direct contact but I feel its not a big deal yet (until I lose the middle man)




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  14. #14 CaliforniaKing, Jul 10, 2013
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  15. First time I ever got bud for myself I just asked a friend if he'd hook me up with a dime bag of an eighth he told me he just bought. Met him later, gave him 10 bucks, and got stoned.
     
    But really, you're not a bad person. You just need to find the right friend to get you the right hookups.
     
  16. your friends are assholes
     
  17. First lets figure out why your friends are such dicks.. gawddamn. cant even help you with a hookup that you are providing the money for? Dicks. 
     
  18. dido
     

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