Having piercings and smoking bud don't make me a bad mother. My daughter has everything she needs/wants and is happy. No need to say hateful things just because I am who I am.
everything is subjective. there really is no way to understand connection with family, it's something you have to feel. i fake being happy around my family just to please them and take away doubts in their head, when i'm usually suffering because of them. the best thing a parent can do is listen, question themselves and try to understand. but then again i'm not a father or mother yet.
Exactly what I did. Act happy, when they're the ones causing me pain. I eventually snapped out of that phase and now I cannot talk to them the same. We have conversations together but its usually 'hey, how's it going, good, how was work, good' , sometimes that's the only thing I will say to them all day
Fuck what anyone says, I'm sure you're a great mother. My dad smokes the herb, and he's the best father I could have asked for.
Fuck you are doing beter then most... My parents are not perfect and never where.. My dad sold crank for 3 years.. My mom was adictted to it and there bolth good parents.. My dad is my best freind but i havnt goten along with my mom after they got divorced.. I always had a roof over my head clothes on my back and food in my mouth and then some... Not saying i didnt raise hell for them but they did what they had to to keep us kids alive.. And i owe them more then i could ever give... Tell that kid to shut up sit down, take a step back and look at who suports them, what they have where they are and show them how they could be living in a cardbord box under a bridge freezing there ass off...
yah as long as you get what you need done for your child then i dont see why it matters, also its not really anyones place to tell you what you can and cant do. I dont quite know how i feel about smoking around them and stuff, i feel like even though im a pot head i dont want my kid smoking pot until theyre ready and id rather not have them view me doing it and figure "oh drugs are ok, dad does them".I also think that its not ok once it gets to a point where its encroaching on your child, if you cant get them to school/bus on time because your wake n baking then you need to get your priorities in line.
I'm a tattooed momma. I get funny looks but I don't care anymore. The only thing that passes me off is old ladies that think my tattoos make me a shitty mom. Who wants to be a boring parent anyways?
just tell me where to drop the orbital bombardment. some people say turn the other cheek, or be the better person. i say fuck em and hate them back the harder. they chose their shot at you. now you get to pick your shot so make it count. as far as hateful things being said, just know that they feel so inferior to you that they feel the need to actually hurt you to feel better about themselves. sad, sorry and pathetic lot that. chin up, with your middle finger up!