Well I'm sure not all do, I was just making an exaggeration. It does feel like sometimes it's kind of an act, like they're upping up the "gay" for some reason.
I've wondered this.. If I had to guess, it would be so its easier to find others.. But I don't know. I find most of them obnoxious, though. I suppose it could just be their personality, but I can't help thinking they're exaggerating a bit with the lisps, shrill voices, ect
Same here. I was interested in the male gender long before I hit puberty. My second oldest brother caught me watching male body builders at 10. I wanted to sink into the floor. Thank all that's holy he thought I was only interested in body building. lol
I didn't recognise it until I was 13 or 14, but in retrospect I totally had a crush on my best friend when I was 8.
Retrospectively I've been interested in guys since I was around 9-10 but I only admitted it to myself when I was about 17 Sent from my iPhone using Grasscity Forum
I knew I was gay right around the time I was 14. I was scared to tell anyone. By the time I was 18, I was more worried about people finding out I smoked pot to be quite honest. By that time, I knew my mom would love and accept me regardless, which was a big deal to me because she was raised in a hardcore Muslim family (Islam apparently doesn't take too well to the whole "gay" thing). But she would be damned if her only son was going to be a criminal.
I knew I liked men when I was 16 my best friend came out the closet at that time and im 21 now and I'm slowly coming out haha. I guess I'm just afraid of what people around me might think.
If people think badly of you just for that then they are not people you need in your life. I lost friends when I was outed. One of my best friends became my worst enemy. I didn't realize until much later that he was fighting his own demons. If you spend your life worrying about what others think you're not going to have much of a life. I didn't have a choice in my outing but I have had a more fulfilling life than I ever could in the closet.
After reconsidering my gender, and with it, my expectations attached to gender itself, I'm thinking I'm pansexual (attracted to people of all genders). Within that I still have a preference for women, but my horizons have definitely been expanded.
Well I used to identify as a lesbian, despite having (and recognizing) some minor attraction to men I wrote it off as just being an aesthetic thing and that the physical/romantic attraction was absent/limited. I don't believe this to actually be the case, I do find some men to be sexually attractive, and would be open to trying sexual activities with them. Men have and do turn me on, I always enjoyed giving handjobs. Same with any person who caught my fancy, really. Regardless of their gender or sex.
hand jobs are excellent. so like what ur saying what ur saying is being pansexual u dont give any fux what the person is if they attractive you are down?? idk
I remember the first time I questioned my sexuality was when I was 16 on the marching band bus and one of my male friends who was slightly feminine gave me a massage and I ended up getting a boner but didn't really mind it haha. Nothing ever happened because of it but it put the idea into my head and looking back I wish it went a bit further than just a massage because he was totally cute. When I was 18 I fucked a dude and it sealed the deal that I was bisexual. Overall I see myself as a pansexual but lately it seems I am asexual since nobody wants to fuck a broke 22 year old nerdy metalhead college student despite my attractiveness.
i always looked at the dude in porn and would spend lots more time appreciating male friends in highschool