My circumcision is the cause of my unhappiness

Im sure there are plenty of cut guys on this forum who will read the title of the thread and dismiss me as a complete pussy. I can only hope to explain my reasoning.


Let me start off by saying that my life could be worse, I could have been giving a tiny dick at birth. Hell, I WISH I had been givin a tiny dick, as I would at least have a better reason to abstain from sex and from relationships.

I was born 3 months premature, and so I wasn't circumsized at birth, like most Americans. Instead, I had to wait for my body to grow and become healthy, as the anesthesia isn't safe to use on infants of my prematurity.

Instead, when I was 3 years old (I vividly remember) my dad told me I had a doctors appointment that day, and it was just going to be a routine checkup. (a lie.) I didnt go to see my normal pediatricion, but instead was separated from my father and brought into an OR with lots of light and many (5+) unfamiliar faces. The lead surgeon asked me what kinda of anesthesia I wanted, (they both had differing cartoon characters on them) and I was out.


When I woke, I was banaged up and spent the next 2 months healing and recovering. (Admittedly not a huge pain but still uncomfortable 24/7). I knew and could tell that a part of me had been removed (I was cognitively aware at 3) but what I never understood was WHY.


I didn't ask either, growing up in America, its not uncommon for many circumcisions to happen, as I found out that roughly more than 50% of my good friends throughout my life were in fact circumcized.

When I was 16 though, I lost my virginity to a girl the same age who I cared about and lived close to. This was when I noticed the problems. While I was happy that I was finally having sex, it didnt provide me with the pleasure I had always imagined it would be like. (This goes both ways, for me and the girl.)

We would have sex as often as all teenagers do, but I always experience the same problems. Problems like taking an excessive time to cum, and having to go "jackhammer mode" to do so. This was uncomfortable on my partner, as my ceratinized and desensistized dick head was constantly rubbing her vaginal walls raw. And not in a good way. I came less than half the time during sex, because my partner asked me to stop "because its becoming uncomfortable". And that was just woman #1. 7 women later, I am as unhappy as I can be with myself. How could anyone ever love me if I cause them physical pain after 15+ minutes of my cut ass dick rubbing them raw?

After researched and studying human sexuality I finally came to the full realization why EVERY WOMAN who I have every had a connection with, has had sexual uncomfortability with me over prolonged sex.

And its because of my circumcision. In addition to removing ALL of my frenulum (Its sole biological purpose is sexual pleasure), I have ZERO slack from shaft skin either when flaccid or erect. Penile sensativity is almost nonexistant. Lightly rubbing the head of my dick provides the same amount of pleasure as rubbing my thumb. Its aweful.


I did create this thread in a small part to rant, but also to create awareness.
I am currently 22 years old, and have been with 8 different women. My dick has rubbed all 8 of em raw during sex, no matter how wet they got or how much foreplay was beforehand.

Im saddened by the fact that I know some of these women have left me for other guys because of these specific sexual issues related to circumcision. Im saddened by the fact that I did not give any kind of consent for this procedure, and that there was no legal liability in place to protect me. Im saddened by the fact that my dad admittedly chose to give me this procedure solely for cosmetics. (We are non-religuous and my mom objected to the circumcision in the first place.)


Have any of you ever witnessed a circumcision being performed on an infant? How many times? When I did a EMT clinical Ihad to work several shifts in the ER, and various ORs, and I can tell you it is a brutally painful experience.


I watched 3 children receive circumcisions, back to back to back, and I had to leave the viewing room because it caused me physical pain at the sight of it.

The surgeon lowers a stainless steel board with straps (these are to hold the infant down) Once secured, a surgical scalpel, (YES, A FKIN SCALPEL) is used to slice into the penile tissue and remove all the various tissues responsible for pleasure. The sight of those infants faces and the sounds of their screams will remain a part of my memory forever.


If you have or are about to have a baby boy, do him a favor: let him have his own desicion in regards to his own penis. Also, go watch a circumcision being performed live at any hospital. Then you can actually know what you would be subjecting your children to.


Please educate yourselves, circumcision's only medical benefit is in the case of abnormalities or birth defects that are penile related (which is less than 1% of all cases.)


P.S.
Has anyone on these forums done successful non surgical foreskin restoration? PM me if its awkward for you to leave a public post.

 

I have sex with people I care about. If I don't care about them on that level, I won't fuck em. My number could be higher, but its about quality over quantity for me.

Unfortunatley, the quality side isn't there for me either

 

I assure I am no troll and if you know me in real life you would know how hard it was for me this morning to write this thread.

Every word Ive typed here today I have meant. AMA

 

lold.

never tried it. never wanted to.

 

If I could choose between a career of banging pornstars for a living until I retired or have 1 healthy relationship with a woman who enjoys having sex with my dick I would choose the relationship 10 times outta 10.

 

None of these were 1 night stands, they were all varrying degrees of "talking/dating" to going out GF status. Had sex multiple times with each partner. Almost always 30+ mins of foreplay for both parties.

Not trying to be overly creepy or descriptive here, but I honeslty beleive my only chance is to try and restore my foreskin naturally. If I had more slack skin, I could have more comfortable sex with people.