Its your call man. Personally, it would be a no go for me as I am straight and have no interest in the same sex. However, I am a firm supporter of personal choice and think everyone should be free from prejudice no matter what their choice, so long as it isnt hurting anyone else (I do not support serial killers actions, rapists etc, for example). That being said, if it feels good do it. It is only experimenting and if you are interested in something you should try it, imo.
Can't believe no one said this yet... What if your gay friend doesn't want to have sex with you. I'm not gay, but I can safely say they also have standards / preferences.
[quote name='"RandomThoughts"'] Now, you shouldn't say that about his sexual preference, he might get upset.[/quote] No read what he said he had so much heterosexual sex it's boring for him. Ask any mAle escort that's bi and they will tell you guys are nasty in terms of how clean they are.
I honestly don't think it matters which gender you're having sex with in this regard. Maybe you are bored with sex because sex is getting pretty boring for you. I'd say it has more to do with that than anything else. Especially when you treat the act of sex the way you have. I mean, just from what you've said you appear to have a string of casual flings, obviously you don't put a lot of emotional value along with having sex. Or maybe any at all. It does feel good. But so does taking a long hot shower, eating your favorite comfort food, or smoking a bowl. You shouldn't do something out of habit (it makes it seem like a thankless chore) and expect it to be fun. What's the point of friends with benefits? It apparently makes it so easy that it's not even FUN for you anymore. You're ready to start having sex with men, just to find out? Sex doesn't have to be addicting. You can have too much of a good thing. Maybe you should take a break after this whole gay camp out. Seek out individuals who aren't just easy conquests (i.e chicks/dudes with standards who are going to make it interesting) because I can tell you now, that's what's making you so bored with it. Why wouldn't it be boring? There's no connection, there's nothing to keep you there, make you wait.. want more.. Masturbation loses its fun, sex is a similar concept. The part that makes it better is the OTHER PERSON. MAKE THAT PERSON SPECIAL. Whether they are male or female. Try it with feeling. Ya dig?
Sounds like you've decided that you want to do this, so do it. Be sure to use condoms if any anal happens...don't want to get HIV...I will add that this is an extremely personal thing to be throwing out on an open internet forum, but that's up to you...
no i don't dig anyway omegaaaaaa dude whatsup i was with my bfwb last night and idk i could not even jack off like i think im losing my gay..... well it is an ex bf so that could be it but that's never been a problem before.... actually i think im still bi but it can't be with him anymore..... my point being go for it but start slow don't kiss and all at first and if he fucks you make sure you get to fuck him fuck edit - i knew your were a bundle of sticks omega but people it is omega..... i smell shit talready
If you are thinking of this, you are probably bisexual or at least curious. Shame on the blades that have been criticizing him, he is man enough and self actuallzed enough to be true to himself. I say go for it, it's just sex and i wouldn't want to live life wondering what if.
I won't bore u with what i would personally do. But its ur body and ur life. Do what u want. Just be aware there might be some reprocussions, like u can't erase the fact that u had wat wat in the butt ya kno? Plus word could get around, loved ones can find out, the people that care for u, their perceptions of u might change for better or worse but if allll of that doesn't matter, then fuck it
if you are "considering" having sex with a man you are gay / bisexual. that's just how it is i don't give a damn what you do, and i'm not trying to judge you, but i can tell you that you are gay.
[quote name='"TopDawgEnt"']Subbed lol Jack him off and move from there if you want lol[/quote] That would make OP a quickie giver
Do gay people like switch off when the have sex? For example if Jon and bob were fucking each other regularly, does Jon get fucked in the ass on Friday and bob get Saturday? Or is it all in one session? Cuz I'd be pretty pissed if I was always receiving if you catch my drift. Also OP, if you are getting bored of sex why not try some sort of fetish shit, spice it up a bit and maybe call a dominatrix or something?
I say refrain from it. This guy is gonna run around clucking like a hen. Then when you try to fuck a girl, she'll know you imbibed PENIS! lol
it depends on the couple i would asssume but yea generally with my ex bf we both got a turn with everything except his ass for some unknown reason
I'm not sure that's very common. Most of the gay couples I know each partner has a stronger preference about whether they want to top or bottom. I know very few who are 50/50. More like 75/25 when they are versatile. But tastes and moods change.