This may be it ..

Theres this girl that is 1 year younger then me, shes 17 and I'm 18, however shes very mature for her age, and is a rocking hot blonde.

We made plans to meet up together next sunday. Also, note we have been lifelong friends b/c our parents knew each other. We haven't seen each other in almost 2 years though b/c of circumstances. I've changed a ton, got 6 pack abs now, building size.

Anyways I'm pretty much wondering what we should do, like should I invite her over. (rents wont be home) Do what? Watch a movie? I'm leaning towards hooking up with her only b/c I think she may want to as well.
But what are some activities that may bring us a little closer ? (if you know what I mean)

Thanks for the help GC.

Edited by DaCrazyHun, 07 May 2012 - 09:58 PM.

watch a movie, blaze up if she tokes

Smoke weed, go at it

Yea i agree with the blaze her out part but only if she is already a toker.because twice i got two non smoker girls high and they just got too baked and got all paranoid and threw up.i was trying to make her more comfy around me but obviously had the opposite effect..buuut if she's not a toker just break out a bottle of moscatto

She isnt a toker. I plan on smoking her out but not the 1st time we chill.
And I won't have access to alcohol either.

Anyone got any good ideas?

No access to alcohol? Fucking Americans and your 21 year old bullshit. We can buy alcohol by 18

No access to alcohol? Fucking Americans and your 21 year old bullshit. We can buy alcohol by 18

Yeah, 21 sucks but w/e.
Any suggestions?

How about treating her right. Take her for lunch coffee whatever, then a movie...if she wants to hook up,she'll let you know, dont be a jerk is all.

I would take her to a park, get a bottle of wine and a 1ft bong.

Why don't you ask her what she wants to do?

I would take her to a park, get a bottle of wine and a 1ft bong.

Why don't you ask her what she wants to do?

b/c I want to be spontaneous and not have her think I can't think of things for us to do.
i might tho ... lol

Just ask her, girls like it when you ask for their opinion.

Most girls wont chose, the answer will always be up to you but don't fall for that... they expect you to pick what they actually want deep inside. you ask for their opinion and act depending on that. get's pretty complicated but think of it as a game, a very serious serious game

Just ask her, girls like it when you ask for their opinion.

Most girls wont chose, the answer will always be up to you but don't fall for that... they expect you to pick what they actually want deep inside. you ask for their opinion and act depending on that. get's pretty complicated but think of it as a game, a very serious serious game

yeah man i understand what your sayin.
ima try it your way and see how it goes i guess, thanks.

You don't have any friends 21+?

go play hey mister.



lol 20 years old playing hey mister, sorry thats classic.

usually do grab-n-goes in HS and until i was 21.

Do something fun, go to the park, bowling, some kind of sport (frisbee golf's a good one) that anyone can have fun at. Go to the mall, take her to a good pet store that has a lot of animals on display that you can pet. Don't just take her back to your place, watch a movie, smoke and fuck; at least not if you think of her as relationship material.

Treat her like a lady, impress her; you want to make a good impact on her for the first date. Stay away from topics like sex, religion, family issues, past relationships; really avoid anything serious. Be fun and funny.