I give up.

I give up trying to get my best friend to love me. Some of you have prob seen my previous threads on this... It sucks because I really have fallen for her. She likes this dude that I fuckin hate. It kills me. Honestly I not even sure if I can continue to be friends with her which will suck but I can't deal with it. Especially since she talks to me like she would to a friend that is a chick. It sucks that I gonna lose a friend just because I can't deal with rejection. It sucks the most cuz all the chicks I don't like are trying to get with me. I hate these air headed materalistic bitches my boys surround themselves with. My friend is bringin over some ladies to cheer me up, but I know that they are gonna be the same as always. I feel like shit. I can't connect with any chick but this one and it hurts so bad that I can't have her. I have everything I could ever want and I have no one to share it with. It really sucks. She is literally the only thing missing from my life. Sorry for the rant I am just depressed and feel like venting.

I have everything I could ever want and I have no one to share it with. It really sucks. She is literally the only thing missing from my life.

psh you dont even have the ///M yet....

psh you dont even have the ///M yet....

Not sure what you mean by that.

Gotta put on your big boy shorts and find someone else. I know the feeling you're in. Being friend zoned sucks.

Gotta put on your big boy shorts and find someone else. I know the feeling you're in. Being friend zoned sucks.

Yeah I know, I am usually good at moving on, but this girl is special. She is a rare find and I am scared I will never find another. She truly is a gem.

yeah dude this sucks. have u told her how u feel? and how long have you known her?

yeah dude this sucks. have u told her how u feel? and how long have you known her?

I drop her hints all the time. I have known her for almost 4 years. When I first met her she had a boyfriend so I didn't go for it (biggest mistake). We hang out almost every day. Go everywhere together. She always hugs me and touches me. Rubs her hands on my abs and pecs so it really sends me mixed signals. I have never strait up said it although once when we were drunk I told her I was attracted to her. I have a feeling she is attracted to me, but she never makes a move and I never wanted to try cuz I didn't wanna make shit awkward. By the way this dude she likes is a total scrub. Doesn't really work out and he is annoying as fuck. Everyone hates him and for some reason she likes him. It really upsets me. Total mind fuck.

yea dude i think you're about 4 years too late then. my only advice can be to man up (or drink a little before this happens) and tell her u dont want to be friends anymore because your feelings are too strong. if its works then thats awesome and go from there. if she says she doesnt have feelings also, then just stop trying man. i think its too late to do anything else.

and dont call her or text her this. look her in her eyes and tell her.

stop idolizing her.

I realize that she is a great girl, but she isn't the only one out there. For now, back off completely and don't talk to her as much, you need to focus your efforts on finding a new, better girl instead of fruitlessly chasing a girl who friend zoned you. She is with another guy, not you, so back off.

by neglecting her then she will subconsciously want you more as she won't understand why you are neglecting her. also during this time you can pursue other girls.

Grab her boob. She'll get the hint then.

yea dude i think you're about 4 years too late then. my only advice can be to man up (or drink a little before this happens) and tell her u dont want to be friends anymore because your feelings are too strong. if its works then thats awesome and go from there. if she says she doesnt have feelings also, then just stop trying man. i think its too late to do anything else.

I know and that is the worst part. I am convinced if she didn't have a bf when I met her we would be together. It's hard though because I don't wanna end the friendship cuz she is my best friend and I like hanging with her, but at the same time I hate rejection and everyday I fall more in love with her.

"I hate these air headed materalistic bitches my boys surround themselves with"

I found your problem, OP. You live in South Florida

Man, you are in a really fucked up situation.

I feel you, man. Not being able to have the lady you want hurts, man!

That is some fucked up shit right there, man.

I wish you the best, man, but you gotta move on from this one.

Nothin' but hurt for you here.

Man, you are in a really fucked up situation.

I feel you, man. Not being able to have the lady you want hurts, man!

That is some fucked up shit right there, man.

I wish you the best, man, but you gotta move on from this one.

Nothin' but hurt for you here.

It is a real fucked up situation. I know that I am perfect for her. I have always wanted a gf who would also be my best friend. It's more then hurt man, it's heartbreaking

She sounds like a friend not worth losing. Im sure you've felt similar feelings for girls in the past, but now it isn't really important to you. This will more than likely turn out the same way, its just hard to realize it.

Seriously, don't lose a 4 year old friendship over it. And don't hate on the guy who she likes unless he personally offends you, because that's just lame. Good luck with your moving on.

Wow...not the kind if post i expected from sir tokes. Ive been EXACTLY where you are bro....the whole she talks to you like a chick friend was SPOT on for me too. She would also go after incompetent jackasses that would continously stomp on her heart and then come to me afterwards. PM if you need some solid advice because now looking back on it I wish someone who had been through what I went through was there to coach me through it. I think I could seriously help.

Wow...not the kind if post i expected from sir tokes. Ive been EXACTLY where you are bro....the whole she talks to you like a chick friend was SPOT on for me too. She would also go after incompetent jackasses that would continously stomp on her heart and then come to me afterwards. PM if you need some solid advice because now looking back on it I wish someone who had been through what I went through was there to coach me through it. I think I could seriously help.

Just pm'd you. this chick is tearin my up inside. the mixed signals she sends are redic. and she does all that. tell me that guys are hot when we are out and I am like I don't care. Then she wonders why I get pissed and just walk away and drive myself home.

She is totally playing w your head, man. It is not normal to rub your best friend's pecs and abs, whatever.

She likes your attention and company but if she cant see what a good boyfriend you'd be to her, then its time to move on. Im from south florida too and i know how hard it is to find genuine people.


Have u told her about how u feel? She has to be stupid not to realize how much she hurts your feelings. But the worst part is she probably isnt stupid or oblivious, she knows she can toy with your mind and enjoys it. It's Fucked up... so it goes...
If i were you, i'd call her out on her bullshit. Or just forget about her

She is totally playing w your head, man. It is not normal to rub your best friend's pecs and abs, whatever.
I have (girl)friends that do things similar to that, and i wouldn't say they're playing with my head.

She likes your attention and company but if she cant see what a good boyfriend you'd be to her, then its time to move on. Im from south florida too and i know how hard it is to find genuine people.


Have u told her about how u feel?
The OP said he only has hinted at it, not directly stated it, which is likely not helping him find closure with his issue.
She has to be stupid not to realize how much she hurts your feelings.
No, because the OP hasn't told her how he feels. If she's flirting just for the hell of it, when he 'drops hints' why would she take it more seriously than what she does?
But the worst part is she probably isnt stupid or oblivious, she knows she can toy with your mind and enjoys it. It's Fucked up... so it goes...
I respectfully disagree. She probably just doesn't know how he feels because he hasn't said how he feels. Can't expect her to just read his mind.
If i were you, i'd call her out on her bullshit. Or just forget about her

OP, don't forget about her, she sounds like a valuable friend. Tell her how you feel and go from there. Don't keep hoping she'll pick up on how you feel.

South florida is full of fake bitches. I am goin to my place up north in a week and a half to chill and hopefully I will be able to chill with genuine chicks.