So I'm paranoid about posting pics and since I only have a camera phone the color is off (making it hard to tell what's wrong) so instead I'll describe my problem and hope for some suggestions.
My plants are about a month and a half in to flowering but I've got some intense problems. Since introducing my HPS lamp a few days in to flowering they got much bushier (fuller, greener leaves) and the flowers have swollen and are looking nice however I began using a flowering fert. (miracle gro 'bloom booster' flower food) the leaves have been turning yellow with brown spots. The smell of the plants has a 'rot' smell. I had a problem with the heat building up since it's a 400 watt lamp in a small closet space. I think this is why the top leaves are turning brown and hardening, they seem almost crispy and some have broken off. One plant looks like it's done better since introducing a humidifier and keeping the temp below 80 (it would sometimes get up to 85 and on one instance 90 degrees) but the other (with the leaves that broke off) has it's calyxes turning a yellowish color and sometimes falling off.
On the other plant the calyxes are turning an amberish color which is expected but why is the other plant doing so poorly?
I water them both every three or four days with 40 ounces at a time (they're in gallon pots and they're both about 18 inches tall) and I've stopped using the fertilizer.
Here's the fertilizer ingredients by the way:
Nitrogen - 18%
Phosphate - 30%
Soluble Potash - 15%
Boron - 0.02%
Copper - 0.07%
Iron - 0.15%
Manganese - 0.05%
Zinc - 0.06%
The other fert I used was geared toward veg. but it had 30% nitrogen. A friend told me it might be a nitrogen defficiency. I have a strong feeling the heat really did the one in but am I underwatering or messing up with the fertilizer? Should I just cut the one down before the buds are ruined? I was hoping I could wait until the calyxes are mostly an amber color but I don't know how long that will take, I don't even know if the one has that much time left to live.

The top of my first plant. Most of the leaves towards the top were damaged by the heat and burnt...this is why it looks so disfigured in the picture below as well.

The leaves toward the top as I said before are burnt and some point up. It's difficult to see but the leaves are all tinged with yellow, the healthiest part of the plant seems to be the middle for some reason but even the middle is now spotting. Also, you can't see the flowers very well but the calyxes are almost all a yellowish-orange color, what does this mean?

The top of the second plant (the better of the two). The buds seem healthy on this one, the calyxes are beginning to change color though, what does this mean?

A better picture of the leaves and what I'm sure is a nutrient deficiency, if not several. I'm sure a lot is wrong with these plants but again, I've never grown anything in my life and I've certainly never used a HPS lamp either...this aspect of my growing experience really introduced me to some problems.
I'm afraid I despise HPS lamps. Though the buds themselves look nice. The trichome count seems considerably high, especially since they came from cheap press seeds.
Still, I'm really concerned by how badly they're doing. Should I just cut them down? I mean I'm terribly afraid that the buds will end up getting damaged. They're about six weeks in, I hear six to nine weeks is all that's needed. At this point would they get me high if I smoked them? I know that's probably a bad way to ask and I realize I sound like an idiot but I'm a bit high and I've been stressed out with flowering...I was so proud just a few weeks ago when they were bright green and full of life, but after a few bad nights they got screwed.
Also, I have yet to find a 30x microscope, where should I be looking?