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Would you want to know if your spouse cheated on you?
Posted 23 January 2012 - 09:10 PM
BAM, someone already posted my answer.
Yes only so that I could leave him. Someone who keeps that big of a secret from me while we are in a committed relationship means that they cannot communicate with me.
And if there's no communication there's no relationship.
That kind of behavior is unacceptable. Not unforgivable for some, but definitely unacceptable.
Honesty about actions is more important to a relationship than the actions themselves.
Posted 23 January 2012 - 09:58 PM
Posted 24 January 2012 - 03:01 AM
The secret protects the cheater more than the spouse. This would be awful for the spouse to hear, but s/he deserves to know who s/he is married to. And the young children deserve to know what kind of people their parents are. And the illegitimate child deserves to know who his/her parents are and be open about it.
Posted 24 January 2012 - 12:11 PM
Let's say you're married for 20 years and your spouse had an affair that's resulted in the conception of a baby.. would you want to know about the affair that occurred?
Jesus fuck dude, thats a heavy concept.
Yes ofcourse I'd want to know , and I would break it off right away.
I've expierenced cheating and it's one of the worste things ever.
Posted 24 January 2012 - 04:43 PM
I'm thinking of the Maury show.... Nuttybong0...... you are NOT the father.
Then I go "Aaaawwww shit" while doing the Ray Lewis dance.
Posted 24 January 2012 - 09:03 PM
And btw, I'm not with her mother, she actually cheated on me various times in the relationship I came to find out towards the end.
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