Coworker cheating to be with me

So lately, a coworker and I have been getting closer emotionally and physically and she still has yet to break up with her boyfriend. She tells me she is afraid to and doesn't want to do it before Christmas, but would soon after and we could date. We've made out multiple times, and then we got high and made out then I fingered her and she gave me a handjob. She then told me how amazing I was, and then says, "Now tell me: how badly have you wanted to fuck me?" but we didn't have sex because it was 3 in the morning and she had work at 11. She then said we would "pick up where we left off" on Monday."

And I just got high as fuck around an hour ago and I thought about and missed her. I realized I'm really falling for her and then it hit me: she's a fucking cheater. I didn't really even take that into account. I know I would feel terrible if she did that to me. I even told her that if we end up dating, and she lost feelings for me, to tell me right away because cheating would break my heart even more.

There's a lot to factor in, but I wanted to know what you all felt about it because it's a crazy love triangle. With a coworker who's cheating for you. I personally am going to keep going after her. Survival of the fittest and hope she remains honest. But if she doesn't it was my mistake. So let me know and stay high.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

No exceptions.

I agree, ive been in that situation but without the connection. Dont expect it to last long, esp once the excitement of cheating on her bf is gone

It's tough only because I'm starting to get really mad she's allowing all this while having a boyfriend. She admitted she's breaking up with him for me, but it's not coming quick enough and I'm starting to not trust her and get jealous. It's a dilemma for damn sure. I'm just gonna see where it goes on Monday. After all, Christmas is coming and going so I'll see what happens and I'll keep you updated. She wants to fuck so bad.

If she cheated with you she'l cheat on you

And I just got high as fuck around an hour ago and I thought about and missed her. I realized I'm really falling for her and then it hit me: she's a fucking cheater.

Now...let me ask you this:
Has Mary Jane ever led you wrong or lied to you?




If you don't think she'll cheat on you, that's a bit naive.
Love is blind though...or better yet, infatuation is blind.
You could take the risk man, but if she doesn't have the
balls or respect to break up with someone before she
makes plans to fuck another guy...well that girl is...

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"If I were you, I'd take precaution..."

hit it and quit it and dont kiss her any more. your kissing her boyfriends dick!!!!!

tough love , brah. but the troof hurts

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

No exceptions.

Agreed, if shes cheating on him what makes you think she wont cheat on you after you start dating?

Be a man and tell this bitch to grow up. Shes clearly whoring for attention, this quote made it obviously so:"Now tell me: how badly have you wanted to fuck me?"

Don't mix relationships with co-workers unless it is a job you don't mind leaving.

not even a dog shits where they sleep.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

No exceptions.

I came straight to this thread to same the same exact thing haha

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

No exceptions.

Not always, if you grow up you stop cheating... unless you're destined to be an immature dbag.


Buuut i think the OP should stay far away. She's cheating on someone with you. This isn't something that happened year ago, this is happening now so what is to stop her from doing the same to you?

obvious.. shes not relationship material.. shes a quick easy fuck and thats it.

shes got no respect for herself or anyone else so why should anyone respect her.

if thats the route you wanna go, then fuck her.. but i wouldnt exactly put a ring on it. hoes cant be trusted. shes a hoe.. not a good respectable female

Honestly, there's no way she's gonna leave her bf. So you might as well just have meaningless sex with her.

Is a sign of bad character...

.also she sounds pretty immature....good luck with that

I dont think so, a cheater is a cheater, I dont wanna go into detail but I know even after 30 years some people still cheat

So lately, a coworker and I have been getting closer emotionally and physically and she still has yet to break up with her boyfriend. She tells me she is afraid to and doesn't want to do it before Christmas, but would soon after and we could date. We've made out multiple times, and then we got high and made out then I fingered her and she gave me a handjob. She then told me how amazing I was, and then says, "Now tell me: how badly have you wanted to fuck me?" but we didn't have sex because it was 3 in the morning and she had work at 11. She then said we would "pick up where we left off" on Monday."

And I just got high as fuck around an hour ago and I thought about and missed her. I realized I'm really falling for her and then it hit me: she's a fucking cheater. I didn't really even take that into account. I know I would feel terrible if she did that to me. I even told her that if we end up dating, and she lost feelings for me, to tell me right away because cheating would break my heart even more.

There's a lot to factor in, but I wanted to know what you all felt about it because it's a crazy love triangle. With a coworker who's cheating for you. I personally am going to keep going after her. Survival of the fittest and hope she remains honest. But if she doesn't it was my mistake. So let me know and stay high.

I'm saying this from personal experience, If she does it once than she'll do it again.

I know that a lot of people want to believe that there is good in everyone, but some people don't want good things for themselves. They live a life of self sabotage, and if your around them, it will begin to affect you as well. When they want to stop this behavior than they will take the steps THEMSELVES.

I know the idea of helping these emotionally and mentally unstable people can be intriguing, as I've done it too many times in the past, but their negativity and instability will begin to affect the positive things in your life.

If you have to tell her anything, tell her that your family is having a "very personal issue" that you don't want to talk about, and that you are going to be focusing more on them.

Remember, people like her are very emotionally and mentally unstable, and you have to tread on eggshells until your at an arms length from the situation.

so, you're getting her all hot & she's going home to her bf for the 'big finish'.

you need to fuck this chick

you do NOT need to make a relationship out of it...

Run, fast. You may not even be the only guy she uses to emotionally fulfill herself.

Its just lust. Shes a freak, and just want to fuck. It comes down to what you want. Either way, shes going to fuck. It could be you or someone else but its gonna happen. Thats just how freaks are.