Women...crave... douchebag assholes?

funkeedel · #1 (**permalink**) 11-13-2009, 08:07 AM

I don't know if it's just me, but I live in a college town, goin to school, hit up parties on the weekend, etc.

It really does seem like a majority of attractive women either have a boyfriend, or are extremely attracted to a douchebag "bro", who likes to pick fights, and treats them like shit. (not to say I haven't fought some)

Is there something that i'm missing? Or do women like being treated like crap? I consider myself a nice guy. I can still be a smartass, and an asshole to people who deserve it, yet haven't had a girlfriend for 8 months now.

The girl I have feelings for is fresh out of a longterm relationship, with a guy that degrades women, and basically treats them as inferior beings. She has even said that she can't be attracted to a nice guy who shows that he cares about her.

Not trying to say I'm prince charming, or this girl is a representation of all women but fuck that. seriously.

appreciate feedback from either sexes.

#2 (**permalink**) 11-13-2009, 08:15 AM

I use to be that girl. My boyfriends were always arrogant assholes, preppy fuckers.
Then I met this one guy who was really laid back and smoked weed and ever since him I've definitely been more attracted to the chill guys. As far as girls liking douchebags...it's probably having a lot to do with what their "friends" will think about the guy they're dating. They'd probably rather a popular prickass bastard, the a kick ass chill guy that likes to get high and listen to music with you.

EsotericXistenz · #3 (**permalink**) 11-13-2009, 08:18 AM

IMO an this comes from observing; girls like the "bad boys" while women prefer men.

junkiedays · #4 (**permalink**) 11-13-2009, 08:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EsotericXistenz

IMO an this comes from observing; girls like the "bad boys" while women prefer men.

This right here is the truth! You're lookin' at the difference between a "girl" and a "woman".

Postal Blowfish · #5 (**permalink**) 11-13-2009, 08:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EsotericXistenz

IMO an this comes from observing; girls like the "bad boys" while women prefer men.

Boosh! Nuttin' but net.

Makizushi · #6 (**permalink**) 11-13-2009, 05:13 PM

I'm sure this may be something hard to believe, but it will greatly reduce stress and what-not if you stop worrying about getting a girlfriend in college. Relationships are great and all, but after college you might end up moving away from each other with your new careers. Plus college girls are girls. Grow up without being held down by a chick and when you're older catch yourself a woman.

funkeedel · #7 (**permalink**) 11-13-2009, 11:07 PM

good advice blades... appreciate the feedback.

I didn't really think about it in that sense, college girls being girls. It's so simple, yet makes so much sense.

And let me put out there that I'm not really in a hurry to get a girlfriend up here... it just would be nice to meet the ideal girl. you know, smokes weed, can have an intelligent conversation, open minded to other drugs as well. and they are definitely out there from what i can tell.

maybe this is why i'm always way attracted to older women

Mr.Wiggles · #8 (**permalink**) 11-13-2009, 11:25 PM

Never be an asshole. Never.

Be a very social, seemingly friendly person. The girl you are trying to attract, assuming she is physically pretty..neg her. Tease her so to speak. Disqualify her. Not in a mean way..in a cocky/funny way. The funny softens it up. This builds attraction..at some point you can move in to the comfort phase and begin to build comfort with the girl after a sufficient amount of negging and attraction building. The comfort phase you can begin to be softer so to speak..don't neg much anymore...give a few creative compliments. Escalate touch..starting friendly..then of course escalate touching more and more..not groping no. Kiss. Get her number..meet with her and build more comfort like before..after about 7 hours of comfort building probably spread over the course of a few days. Plan for a more intimate setting and move to the seduction phase and fuck. If you did your work right in the attraction phase and then really did your work in the comfort phase..it will be relatively easy to fuck her.

M@ryJ@neLov3r · #9 (**permalink**) 11-14-2009, 02:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by funkeedel

good advice blades... appreciate the feedback.

I didn't really think about it in that sense, college girls being girls. It's so simple, yet makes so much sense.

And let me put out there that I'm not really in a hurry to get a girlfriend up here... it just would be nice to meet the ideal girl. you know, smokes weed, can have an intelligent conversation, open minded to other drugs as well. and they are definitely out there from what i can tell.

maybe this is why i'm always way attracted to older women

Man its like you read my mind....Im on the same boat...dont worry shit will turn around, i hope but until then hello "girls"

cleezy · #10 (**permalink**) 11-14-2009, 01:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr.Wiggles

Never be an asshole. Never.

Be a very social, seemingly friendly person. The girl you are trying to attract, assuming she is physically pretty..neg her. Tease her so to speak. Disqualify her. Not in a mean way..in a cocky/funny way. The funny softens it up. This builds attraction..at some point you can move in to the comfort phase and begin to build comfort with the girl after a sufficient amount of negging and attraction building. The comfort phase you can begin to be softer so to speak..don't neg much anymore...give a few creative compliments. Escalate touch..starting friendly..then of course escalate touching more and more..not groping no. Kiss. Get her number..meet with her and build more comfort like before..after about 7 hours of comfort building probably spread over the course of a few days. Plan for a more intimate setting and move to the seduction phase and fuck. If you did your work right in the attraction phase and then really did your work in the comfort phase..it will be relatively easy to fuck her.

WHO ARE YOU MYSTERY????? Throw some negs... do some Kino...

some people are born with game.... others.. are born with morals and ethics...

Calcifer · #11 (**permalink**) 11-14-2009, 01:50 PM

I like to think a low IQ is attracted to other low IQ's.

IGotTheCottons · #12 (**permalink**) 11-14-2009, 02:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by EsotericXistenz

IMO an this comes from observing; girls like the "bad boys" while women prefer men.

Hit the nail on the fuckin head.

Tyke · #13 (**permalink**) 11-14-2009, 02:16 PM

Pulled this out of my "if I knew then what I know now" memory bank:

Focus on your education which will hopefully lead to a good career which in turn will lead to financial success. If you achieve financial success, the women will follow naturally. That's not to say women are goldiggers but they have their priorities too and security is one of them. And realize that some women will follow a pattern of being attracted to the wrong guy over and over again and there's nothing you can do about. Look somewhere else because there's a lot of good ones out there. My wife is one. We've been together for 20 years and the flame hasn't diminished at all. In fact it burns brighter all the time. We're each others very best friend and I think that helps alot. Work hard now young friend (play hard too) and you will be rewarded with the woman of your dreams when the time is right.

s w i s h e r · #14 (**permalink**) 11-14-2009, 02:26 PM

yeah, when i worked at safeway, i really started to notice that shit. i also noticed that all the hot girls who would have everybody in the store turn around n look at them or try to get at them or whatever damn near have a panic attack when u dont give them the attention they so desperately want...hilarious

Sir Tokes Alot · #15 (**permalink**) 11-14-2009, 04:44 PM

If she said she is attracted to a d bag then just act a little more d baggish around here.

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#1 (permalink) 11-13-2009, 08:07 AM
funkeedel Registered User Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Seattle Posts: 158	Women...crave... douchebag assholes? I don't know if it's just me, but I live in a college town, goin to school, hit up parties on the weekend, etc. It really does seem like a majority of attractive women either have a boyfriend, or are extremely attracted to a douchebag "bro", who likes to pick fights, and treats them like shit. (not to say I haven't fought some) Is there something that i'm missing? Or do women like being treated like crap? I consider myself a nice guy. I can still be a smartass, and an asshole to people who deserve it, yet haven't had a girlfriend for 8 months now. The girl I have feelings for is fresh out of a longterm relationship, with a guy that degrades women, and basically treats them as inferior beings. She has even said that she can't be attracted to a nice guy who shows that he cares about her. Not trying to say I'm prince charming, or this girl is a representation of all women but fuck that. seriously. appreciate feedback from either sexes. __________________ <3 Drugs

#2 (permalink) 11-13-2009, 08:15 AM
agirlnamedcarie Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Women...crave... douchebag assholes? I use to be that girl. My boyfriends were always arrogant assholes, preppy fuckers. Then I met this one guy who was really laid back and smoked weed and ever since him I've definitely been more attracted to the chill guys. As far as girls liking douchebags...it's probably having a lot to do with what their "friends" will think about the guy they're dating. They'd probably rather a popular prickass bastard, the a kick ass chill guy that likes to get high and listen to music with you.

#3 (permalink) 11-13-2009, 08:18 AM
EsotericXistenz MY LIFE FOR IRE!!!!! Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: My own world. Posts: 357	Re: Women...crave... douchebag assholes? IMO an this comes from observing; girls like the "bad boys" while women prefer men. __________________

#7 (permalink) 11-13-2009, 11:07 PM
funkeedel Registered User Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Seattle Posts: 158	Re: Women...crave... douchebag assholes? good advice blades... appreciate the feedback. I didn't really think about it in that sense, college girls being girls. It's so simple, yet makes so much sense. And let me put out there that I'm not really in a hurry to get a girlfriend up here... it just would be nice to meet the ideal girl. you know, smokes weed, can have an intelligent conversation, open minded to other drugs as well. and they are definitely out there from what i can tell. maybe this is why i'm always way attracted to older women __________________ <3 Drugs

#8 (permalink) 11-13-2009, 11:25 PM
Mr.Wiggles CarbonFiberDildo Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 544	Re: Women...crave... douchebag assholes? Never be an asshole. Never. Be a very social, seemingly friendly person. The girl you are trying to attract, assuming she is physically pretty..neg her. Tease her so to speak. Disqualify her. Not in a mean way..in a cocky/funny way. The funny softens it up. This builds attraction..at some point you can move in to the comfort phase and begin to build comfort with the girl after a sufficient amount of negging and attraction building. The comfort phase you can begin to be softer so to speak..don't neg much anymore...give a few creative compliments. Escalate touch..starting friendly..then of course escalate touching more and more..not groping no. Kiss. Get her number..meet with her and build more comfort like before..after about 7 hours of comfort building probably spread over the course of a few days. Plan for a more intimate setting and move to the seduction phase and fuck. If you did your work right in the attraction phase and then really did your work in the comfort phase..it will be relatively easy to fuck her. __________________ House Music Yea? http://www.youtube.com/user/DJQuips

#11 (permalink) 11-14-2009, 01:50 PM
Calcifer Registered User Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Howl's Fireplace Posts: 667	Re: Women...crave... douchebag assholes? I like to think a low IQ is attracted to other low IQ's.

#13 (permalink) 11-14-2009, 02:16 PM
Tyke RORER 714 Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 712	Re: Women...crave... douchebag assholes? Pulled this out of my "if I knew then what I know now" memory bank: Focus on your education which will hopefully lead to a good career which in turn will lead to financial success. If you achieve financial success, the women will follow naturally. That's not to say women are goldiggers but they have their priorities too and security is one of them. And realize that some women will follow a pattern of being attracted to the wrong guy over and over again and there's nothing you can do about. Look somewhere else because there's a lot of good ones out there. My wife is one. We've been together for 20 years and the flame hasn't diminished at all. In fact it burns brighter all the time. We're each others very best friend and I think that helps alot. Work hard now young friend (play hard too) and you will be rewarded with the woman of your dreams when the time is right. __________________ ...remember what the doormouse said, ...Feed your head!

#14 (permalink) 11-14-2009, 02:26 PM
s w i s h e r The MoB all I got Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: WHERE THE KUSH IS GROWN, NORCAL Posts: 5,264	Re: Women...crave... douchebag assholes? yeah, when i worked at safeway, i really started to notice that shit. i also noticed that all the hot girls who would have everybody in the store turn around n look at them or try to get at them or whatever damn near have a panic attack when u dont give them the attention they so desperately want...hilarious __________________ Pay me or pay me no attention

#15 (permalink) 11-14-2009, 04:44 PM
Sir Tokes Alot Young Millionaire Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: South Florida Posts: 2,336	Re: Women...crave... douchebag assholes? If she said she is attracted to a d bag then just act a little more d baggish around here.

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