So this guy....

vape_babe · #1 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 10:31 AM

I've been talking to for a bit...things are good. We've hung out a few times smoked together wat not. He's a dealer so hes like almost always busy. I dunno if i could date a dealer. Do u think things would get eaiser the more we get to kno eachother or get worse?

Gumbo · #2 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 10:42 AM

My first thought is worse. As you get closer you will inevitably gather more and more knowledge of each other's lives. Now, him being a dealer, he has information that you really shouldn't know (for both of your protection). I can see how easily a relationship could be damaged by him not divulging information about business.

For instance, let's say you two are hanging out one night and he gets an important business call and has to attend to it that second. Chances are (if he's a smart dealer), he's not going to tell you where he's going or who he's meeting. This is where the stress comes in. I know I wouldn't like it if a significant other had these types of occurances.

My second thought is just try it out. There's no harm in trying, but know what you're getting into.

Good luck.

Lionel Hutz · #3 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 02:48 PM

How old is he and how long has he been a dealer?

imcherokeeangel · #4 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 03:03 PM

Be prepared to become his assistant...

I had a friend who hooked up with a dealer...they lived together and she ran a daycare out of their home. Next thing ya know, he'd be taking off in the morning, leaving her with pre-weighed bags, telling her "so and so is comin by later...give this to him and collect this amount of money...Oh! And this other guy will be here later, too, so take care of him, as well"...and so on and so on...she ended up leaving him in the end because it was too risky for her to run her business and his too...

My daughter's bf is the same way...she takes care of it more than he does anymore...makes me nervous cause they got a baby and I don't want nothin to happen to him

Ravaged · #5 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by imcherokeeangel

Be prepared to become his assistant...

I had a friend who hooked up with a dealer...they lived together and she ran a daycare out of their home. Next thing ya know, he'd be taking off in the morning, leaving her with pre-weighed bags, telling her "so and so is comin by later...give this to him and collect this amount of money...Oh! And this other guy will be here later, too, so take care of him, as well"...and so on and so on...she ended up leaving him in the end because it was too risky for her to run her business and his too...

My daughter's bf is the same way...she takes care of it more than he does anymore...makes me nervous cause they got a baby and I don't want nothin to happen to him

I don't know what those guys are thinking, but I would never let my girl run my business. If he manages his shit fine right now, then he can do it with a girlfriend. If you don't feel comfortable helping him, then let him know ahead of time that you don't plan on it. As long as you both can reach an understanding as to how the relationship will work for both of you there won't be a problem.

Emblazened · #6 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 04:52 PM

It depends what hes selling. If hes selling weed then I mean whatevs, its just weed, and he's a person too.

If he's selling heroin or something, yeah, that sounds a little risky.

I don't think you should worry about it too much.

DAT PIFFF · #7 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravaged

I don't know what those guys are thinking, but I would never let my girl run my business.

there isnt much she could do with pre-weighed bags and if he doesnt have to tend to that business that opens up a whole new world of time for said 'dealer' to get his grind on. people know where that shits coming from its not like anybody is gonna get it twisted

imcherokeeangel · #8 (**permalink**) 11-07-2009, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by DAT PIFFF

there isnt much she could do with pre-weighed bags and if he doesnt have to tend to that business that opens up a whole new world of time for said 'dealer' to get his grind on. people know where that shits coming from its not like anybody is gonna get it twisted

Yep! A lot of the girls I've known that do it for them don't even smoke. The guy is runnin around delivering stuff while she's at home takin care of the ones who are willing to pick it up themselves...makin twice as much money...we all know girls like money, so how could she say no? Right?

No matter what...if you end up living with him, whether you're selling it for him or not...if he happens to get raided and go down, you're going down with him

vape_babe · #9 (**permalink**) 11-08-2009, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Lionel Hutz

How old is he and how long has he been a dealer?

He's 23 almost 24, and i'm real sure how long he's been dealing. He's been into some trouble...just got outta jail a month or so ago. 4 yrs. But he's got his shit together now and as far as i know he's only selling weed. But ya never know. Ya' know?

I wouldn't mind helping him out at all. I'm just kinda worried about him being too busy or whatnot. He's a real responsible dealer tho so i'm not sure why i'm really worried...

bKush · #10 (**permalink**) 11-08-2009, 06:52 AM

Follow your heart.

But if youre at his house and he gets raided, prepare to go with him.

yellow bic · #11 (**permalink**) 11-08-2009, 07:02 AM

dude he already has a record .......people who have already been to jail or have had run in with the law are that much more likely to continue to have problems with the law.

good luck.

Tyke · #12 (**permalink**) 11-08-2009, 08:04 AM

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Originally Posted by vape_babe

He's 23 almost 24, and i'm real sure how long he's been dealing. He's been into some trouble...just got outta jail a month or so ago. 4 yrs. But he's got his shit together now and as far as i know he's only selling weed. But ya never know. Ya' know?

I wouldn't mind helping him out at all. I'm just kinda worried about him being too busy or whatnot. He's a real responsible dealer tho so i'm not sure why i'm really worried...

Heh heh.

No offense intended toward the dealers but sweetheart, can't you raise the bar a bit and set your sights just a little higher? This isn't good for you.

imcherokeeangel · #13 (**permalink**) 11-08-2009, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by vape_babe

He's 23 almost 24, and i'm real sure how long he's been dealing. He's been into some trouble...just got outta jail a month or so ago. 4 yrs. But he's got his shit together now and as far as i know he's only selling weed. But ya never know. Ya' know?

I wouldn't mind helping him out at all. I'm just kinda worried about him being too busy or whatnot. He's a real responsible dealer tho so i'm not sure why i'm really worried...

Red flag!

Don't be a fool...4 years in jail...4 years would be 'prison'....only dealing weed? Nah...he ain't got his shit together, girl! Run! Some people just never learn..

Not sure why you're really worried? That would be your instinct kicking in and you're trying to ignore it...

GreenHerbOfLove · #14 (**permalink**) 11-08-2009, 05:51 PM

Sounds like you either:

a) Are looking for a source of free weed
b) Are hoping to get into heavier drugs
c) Are attracted to complete losers and his guy has a golden halo of shit over his head (what could be more attractive?)
d) Are into forced-bisexual guys (see the time in the clink)
e) Are hoping yourself to go to jail to see if the girls are "into it" and possibly there is a reality TV show to come of this
f) All of the above

My opinion . . . you should marry this guy - you will have beautiful children who will be handed over to the state. But at least you will get to see what they look like, which is really the point, isn't it?

Violet · #15 (**permalink**) 11-08-2009, 06:09 PM

So he goes to jail for four years, then gets out and instead of straightening his life up and getting a real job, he starts doing something else that'll just land him in jail again?? And he's how old.. 24?

You could do way better, girl! I wouldn't waste my time. Like the old saying goes "You are who you surround yourself with."

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#1 (permalink) 11-07-2009, 10:31 AM
vape_babe Take is eeeeasy! Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: 480, Arizona Posts: 254	So this guy.... I've been talking to for a bit...things are good. We've hung out a few times smoked together wat not. He's a dealer so hes like almost always busy. I dunno if i could date a dealer. Do u think things would get eaiser the more we get to kno eachother or get worse? __________________ "I dont ever want to feel, Like I did that day. Take me to the place I love, Take me all the way."

#2 (permalink) 11-07-2009, 10:42 AM
Gumbo We'll soon be home. Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,570	Re: So this guy.... My first thought is worse. As you get closer you will inevitably gather more and more knowledge of each other's lives. Now, him being a dealer, he has information that you really shouldn't know (for both of your protection). I can see how easily a relationship could be damaged by him not divulging information about business. For instance, let's say you two are hanging out one night and he gets an important business call and has to attend to it that second. Chances are (if he's a smart dealer), he's not going to tell you where he's going or who he's meeting. This is where the stress comes in. I know I wouldn't like it if a significant other had these types of occurances. My second thought is just try it out. There's no harm in trying, but know what you're getting into. Good luck. __________________ "Come on the amazing journey, and learn all you should know" - Amazing Journey - The Who

#3 (permalink) 11-07-2009, 02:48 PM
Lionel Hutz Cases won in 30 minutes Join Date: May 2009 Location: Phoenix Posts: 379	Re: So this guy.... How old is he and how long has he been a dealer?

#4 (permalink) 11-07-2009, 03:03 PM
imcherokeeangel Cherokee (Im a chick) Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Deep in the woods, Michigan Posts: 2,523	Re: So this guy.... Be prepared to become his assistant... I had a friend who hooked up with a dealer...they lived together and she ran a daycare out of their home. Next thing ya know, he'd be taking off in the morning, leaving her with pre-weighed bags, telling her "so and so is comin by later...give this to him and collect this amount of money...Oh! And this other guy will be here later, too, so take care of him, as well"...and so on and so on...she ended up leaving him in the end because it was too risky for her to run her business and his too... My daughter's bf is the same way...she takes care of it more than he does anymore...makes me nervous cause they got a baby and I don't want nothin to happen to him __________________

#6 (permalink) 11-07-2009, 04:52 PM
Emblazened , one day, exploded. Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: outside of atlanta Posts: 861	Re: So this guy.... It depends what hes selling. If hes selling weed then I mean whatevs, its just weed, and he's a person too. If he's selling heroin or something, yeah, that sounds a little risky. I don't think you should worry about it too much. __________________ I don't want for us to take pills, anymore, Not that it's bad I don't want for us to take pills, take pills, take pills Because we're stronger And we don't need them -- Panda Bear

#10 (permalink) 11-08-2009, 06:52 AM
bKush Apprentice Grower Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: In a greenhouse Posts: 677	Re: So this guy.... Follow your heart. But if youre at his house and he gets raided, prepare to go with him. __________________ Glass by: China

#11 (permalink) 11-08-2009, 07:02 AM
yellow bic wherd. Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 1,556	Re: So this guy.... dude he already has a record .......people who have already been to jail or have had run in with the law are that much more likely to continue to have problems with the law. good luck.

#14 (permalink) 11-08-2009, 05:51 PM
GreenHerbOfLove GreenHerbOfLove Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Vangroovie Posts: 53	Re: So this guy.... Sounds like you either: a) Are looking for a source of free weed b) Are hoping to get into heavier drugs c) Are attracted to complete losers and his guy has a golden halo of shit over his head (what could be more attractive?) d) Are into forced-bisexual guys (see the time in the clink) e) Are hoping yourself to go to jail to see if the girls are "into it" and possibly there is a reality TV show to come of this f) All of the above My opinion . . . you should marry this guy - you will have beautiful children who will be handed over to the state. But at least you will get to see what they look like, which is really the point, isn't it?

#15 (permalink) 11-08-2009, 06:09 PM
Violet can you dig it? yes i can Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Emerald City Posts: 1,531	Re: So this guy.... So he goes to jail for four years, then gets out and instead of straightening his life up and getting a real job, he starts doing something else that'll just land him in jail again?? And he's how old.. 24? You could do way better, girl! I wouldn't waste my time. Like the old saying goes "You are who you surround yourself with." __________________

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