Kissing girls with boyfriends?

[Kingjacobo]

I was talking to my very attractive female friend (friend, not girlfriend) and told me this guy that's told her that he likes her kisses her on the cheek all the time. Now she doesn't see the big deal, but if she were my girlfriend i'd be uncomfortable with it. Granted, not control freak uncomfortable, but a little iffy, y'know? So now it's time to settle this little argument once and for all, in the courts of GC.

Is it just me or would you say its ok for guys to kiss girls in relationships?

[okil]

i know that i def wouldn't be letting other guys kiss my girlfriend. no matter how harmless they might think it is. not gonna lie though, i've fucked a couple different girls that had boyfriends. didn't really feel bad about it though because they were dickheads anyway.

[S for Shoota]

I would say to allow it, don't bring it up as a big deal because its really not.

If this guy starts trying to take things too far, wait for her to tell you something (if she cares about you, she'll let you know). Then you can handle things accordingly.

My 2cents

Edit: Didn't realize this wasn't your personal gf. But its still how I feel the boyfriend in the situation should handle it.

If your girlfriends wants to cheat, she will. Then you just say "cya bitch" and move on

[rumandromanism]

Everyone in Europe kisses everyone on the cheek. Seems okay to me.

[Calcifer]

Originally Posted by rumandromanism

Everyone in Europe kisses everyone on the cheek. Seems okay to me.

lol its a friendly thing to do. Dont create obsession.

[Smash420]

Originally Posted by rumandromanism

Everyone in Europe kisses everyone on the cheek. Seems okay to me.

This is America, boy. Anyone kisses or looks into some elses eyes before marriage, we take em out on the street and shoot em.

Yee-haw!

[Kingjacobo]

Hmm. Seems pretty evenly split so far despite some cultural differences. I'm sure more than 10 of you have an opinion on this, please vote!

[barfdog17]

If she's my girlfriend I won't stand for it. If someone wants to kiss her on the cheek that's cool, but I'm not down for someone making out with a girl I'm in a relationship with.

On the other hand I don't care if she has a boyfriend or not. If I want her I'm taking her. For guys, you get to a point to where a girl may have a boyfriend and she just won't mention him to you. You may KNOW about him, but if you just don't care or act like it's an issue, then it's not. There's a girl I made out with a few times and I know she has a boyfriend. We'll probably fuck soon enough. Why? I offer her something her boyfriend doesn't. She'll probably break up with him before we do it though, she seems decent enough like that.

[soapman]

It's been my experiance, and I've never been in a relationship where I wasn't cheated on, so I kinda know what I'm talkin aboot. Anyway the whole kissing on the cheek thing I don't really care for it one way or the other. It's one of those things I would just put on the back burner and just keep it in mind, it's these kinda situations that usually (well, in my case) will lead to cheating. I mean it starts off all innocent he kisses her on the cheek one night, next thing ya know she's blowin the guy in the back seat of his volkswagen and than comin home and kissin you with that mouth. After a couple snowball effects, no thanks.

[socrplyr_08]

hell no, he said he was attracted to her. id first tell him to stop if its just a peck on the cheek. id just tell him im not comfortable with it. and if he persisted or if it went further id knock his ass out. if it were mutual id knock his ass out and leave her

[Violet]

Originally Posted by soapman

It's been my experiance, and I've never been in a relationship where I wasn't cheated on, so I kinda know what I'm talkin aboot.

Haha, pictured you saying that with a canadian accent.

Depends on what you mean by "kiss". If it's one of those things where you lean in and barely kiss the person on the cheek as a kinda greeting, that's no big deal imo. But if it's like planting the lips firmly on the cheek, in a flirty kinda way, yeah I'd be annoyed.

[Tyke]

Pretty clear to me that the guy wants more than to peck her on the cheek. If she didn't think it was a big deal, why did she even bring it up?

[hiasi]

I wouldn't kiss a girl with a boyfriend. If that shit happened to me I'd be heated. If anyone kissed my girl on the lips and liked it, It wouldn't be cool. Anyone with me on this?

[rayvenelayne]

Originally Posted by hiasi

I wouldn't kiss a girl with a boyfriend. If that shit happened to me I'd be heated. If anyone kissed my girl on the lips and liked it, It wouldn't be cool. Anyone with me on this?

read the post.
it says cheek.

and, idk, i mean kissing on the cheek is no big deal, but if i had a bf and i knew this dude liked me i wouldnt be letting him do that.

it seems a little misleading to me.