i need help.

Dr. Phil · #1 (**permalink**) 10-19-2009, 06:50 AM

So there's this girl I love.

We aren't dating, its more of a low-key/fuck buddy sort of thing.

The only reason we aren't dating is because she still misses her ex.
She says she wants to get over him, but she constantly reminds herself of him.
Hell, her favorite artist's name is her ex's name.

I'm trying to help her get over him, I'm taking her out, I'm spending time with her, and I try to comfort her whenever she needs it.

Some days she'll not even mention her ex, but on other days, she just cant stop thinking about it.

I want to help her get over him, but I dont know what to do and where to start.

thanks for taking the time to read this wall of text. I really need some advice GC.

Dr. Phil · #2 (**permalink**) 10-19-2009, 07:26 AM

bump.

sirhC · #3 (**permalink**) 10-19-2009, 07:49 AM

Dr Phil needs help. how ironic

Dr. Phil · #4 (**permalink**) 10-19-2009, 08:03 AM

i lol'd when i realized the irony of my thread.
but still, fact remains that i really need some help.

hobobob · #5 (**permalink**) 10-19-2009, 09:59 AM

i Personally wouldn't get involved and would have waited until she did it on her own, but you already opened the box. so my diagnosis is that she is constantly being reminded because of all the fun memories that she has (im assuming it was a long relationship?) anyway my advice is to make some of your own memories, things that your sure she didn't do with her ex (thats important!!!) like rockclimbing biking hiking or something romantic like those faggity(sp?) swan boats, or dancing.

ImWithWhatever · #6 (**permalink**) 10-19-2009, 06:17 PM

ok dr phil lemme help u out

u made a mistake by loving her (at this point and time at least)
would u rele wanna be in a relationship with a girl still thinking about her other man?
u cant try to force it and take her out and buy her shit, its gotta be one special moment where u look in each others eyes and u both realize this is what u want. at that point shell forget the other guy (hopefully)

alpo · #7 (**permalink**) 10-20-2009, 12:08 AM

WoW Dr. Phil...I can't believe he's on here askin us potheadz for love advice...hey if Robin keeps thinkin about her ex then that means you gotta back hand her Dr. Phil...duh!!

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#1 (permalink) 10-19-2009, 06:50 AM
Dr. Phil Dude....wait what??? Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: where the grass is greener... Posts: 81	i need help. So there's this girl I love. We aren't dating, its more of a low-key/fuck buddy sort of thing. The only reason we aren't dating is because she still misses her ex. She says she wants to get over him, but she constantly reminds herself of him. Hell, her favorite artist's name is her ex's name. I'm trying to help her get over him, I'm taking her out, I'm spending time with her, and I try to comfort her whenever she needs it. Some days she'll not even mention her ex, but on other days, she just cant stop thinking about it. I want to help her get over him, but I dont know what to do and where to start. thanks for taking the time to read this wall of text. I really need some advice GC. __________________ I'm not really Dr. Phil. But then again, who isn't?

#2 (permalink) 10-19-2009, 07:26 AM
Dr. Phil Dude....wait what??? Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: where the grass is greener... Posts: 81	Re: i need help. bump. __________________ I'm not really Dr. Phil. But then again, who isn't?

#3 (permalink) 10-19-2009, 07:49 AM
sirhC Registered User Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 110	Re: i need help. Dr Phil needs help. how ironic

#4 (permalink) 10-19-2009, 08:03 AM
Dr. Phil Dude....wait what??? Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: where the grass is greener... Posts: 81	Re: i need help. i lol'd when i realized the irony of my thread. but still, fact remains that i really need some help. __________________ I'm not really Dr. Phil. But then again, who isn't?

#5 (permalink) 10-19-2009, 09:59 AM
hobobob stoner Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: AZ Posts: 826	Re: i need help. i Personally wouldn't get involved and would have waited until she did it on her own, but you already opened the box. so my diagnosis is that she is constantly being reminded because of all the fun memories that she has (im assuming it was a long relationship?) anyway my advice is to make some of your own memories, things that your sure she didn't do with her ex (thats important!!!) like rockclimbing biking hiking or something romantic like those faggity(sp?) swan boats, or dancing. __________________

#6 (permalink) 10-19-2009, 06:17 PM
ImWithWhatever Straight Outta Jersey Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: NJ ALLLL DAY Posts: 3,329	Re: i need help. ok dr phil lemme help u out u made a mistake by loving her (at this point and time at least) would u rele wanna be in a relationship with a girl still thinking about her other man? u cant try to force it and take her out and buy her shit, its gotta be one special moment where u look in each others eyes and u both realize this is what u want. at that point shell forget the other guy (hopefully) __________________ PISS EXCELLENCE, TO STEP TO THIS, YOU MUST BE OUTTA YO MIND

#7 (permalink) 10-20-2009, 12:08 AM
alpo Registered User Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 265	Re: i need help. WoW Dr. Phil...I can't believe he's on here askin us potheadz for love advice...hey if Robin keeps thinkin about her ex then that means you gotta back hand her Dr. Phil...duh!!

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