Telling my girlfriend she can't talk to certain guys?

Like guys she always talks to and takes pictures with and her exes (which she had sex with on the first day) Is it wrong if I do this?

Edited by Jeffersong808, 15 June 2012 - 09:52 PM.

personally i think it is and i would like to say id never do it, but i dont really have a huge amount of experience being in an official relationship lol

Nope .... It has to be done

It's okay to tell her that you don't feel okay with her talking to certain guys with a justified reason, but telling her she can't? Pretty controlling IMO

EDIT: Yes. It is wrong.

There's so many guys out there in the world lol. What, she can't have friends now? Perhaps you shouldn't be so insecure. I used to be like this many years ago in the beg. of my high school days but realized I got nothing to worry about. Unless she's a complete slut that's horny as fuck all the time and will fuck anyone, don't be so insecure.

No trust = no relationship.

Harsh but true.

Keep in mind she excludes ALL contact of girls in my life. I can't talk to anybody and I never did for like over a year. Hell, I can't even go to my friend's grad party tomorrow! And all my friends are going -____________- so damn controlling.. But she still talks to guys and its irritating. fuck it, i need a smoke, and a beer!

Edited by Jeffersong808, 15 June 2012 - 09:57 PM.

Nope .... It has to be done

There isn't even any background information being given, so probably not. Certain guys can mean anything.

Give more information about this subject before you ask for judgment on your actions.

EDIT: didn't see your reply. Fair is fare; if she says no girls, then you say no guys. Although it sounds like a shitty relationship.

There isn't even any background information being given, so probably not. Certain guys can mean anything.

Give more information about this subject before you ask for judgment on your actions.

Well if he can't talk to girls the same goes for her

Keep in mind she excludes ALL contact of girls in my life. I can't talk to anybody and I never did for like over a year. Hell, I can't even go to my friend's grad party tomorrow! And all my friends are going -____________- so damn controlling.. But she still talks to guys and its irritating. fuck it, i need a smoke, and a beer!

Don't force her to stop seeing guys, and just start seeing girls as friends. If she doesn't like it, she's a fucking hypocrite and you should just fuck her off. Just my opinion

pretty shitty man lol

im kinda with Durb on this one.. from experience, yo do NOT want to get serious with someone who would act like this, its just not a good idea imho
just my 2cents

Tell her you don't like her talking to so and so, and see how it goes from there.

If she keeps in constant contact with her ex boyfriend, then I would not want to be apart of that...

Keep in mind she excludes ALL contact of girls in my life. I can't talk to anybody and I never did for like over a year. Hell, I can't even go to my friend's grad party tomorrow! And all my friends are going -____________- so damn controlling.. But she still talks to guys and its irritating. fuck it, i need a smoke, and a beer!

Why in the world would you want to be with someone who won't let you hang out with anyone else?

This sounds like a shit-hole of a relationship...

Its technically wrong, but most people wouldnt put themselves in a position like that.

Why are people on this site always dating horrible people? Seriously raise your self esteem. Take a step back and realize you dont need anyone to make you happy. Why not tell her you want to just be friends and fool around every once in a while. Are you getting what you really want?

Just saw that youre not allowed to see others. Please... please please please please pleasssse grow a pair tell this skank to fuck off and find happiness. I bet you shes cheating on you, I know would (and have). If you let people take control of you, they will go as far as you let them. You are letting her go as far she wants to. Im sorry

Edited by nick32, 16 June 2012 - 03:52 AM.

Keep in mind she excludes ALL contact of girls in my life. I can't talk to anybody and I never did for like over a year. Hell, I can't even go to my friend's grad party tomorrow! And all my friends are going -____________- so damn controlling.. But she still talks to guys and its irritating. fuck it, i need a smoke, and a beer!

Sorry I tell you bro but she's cheating on you. I mean obviously I dont KNOW but come on if she can do anything she wants but you can't do anything you want? Is this chick really even worth it? Really man you sound like an alright dude dump the whore and find a cute nerdy chick that blazes.

Keep in mind she excludes ALL contact of girls in my life. I can't talk to anybody and I never did for like over a year. Hell, I can't even go to my friend's grad party tomorrow! And all my friends are going -____________- so damn controlling.. But she still talks to guys and its irritating. fuck it, i need a smoke, and a beer!

Dump that fucking bitch. Man the fuck up and demand your balls back. And once she gives em back bury your cock in her ass and throat then break up tellig her the gtfo. Im cold hearted when it comes to stupid ass bitches.

I second this. That's a great idea!

if she is good looking i would continue staying with her for the sex, but not get emotionally attached. and let her do her own thing..

Like guys she always talks to and takes pictures with and her exes (which she had sex with on the first day) Is it wrong if I do this?

There's this thing called trust