UPDATE 1: An update on my situation. This girl who this thread originally was about msged me this verbatim: "Haha same here. Sorry I just saw this message for some reason. And yea sure I wouldn't mind that. I am just extremely busy right now, but we can figure something out." This makes me think she is trying to let me down easily. I was thinking of sending a msg like "alright, I can't wait to hear from you!" to leave all the dice on her side of the table but to not assume she is saying no. what do you guys think?
But since this chick potentially fell through I've been trying to plant other seeds and I definitely managed to.
there's this girl that's a year younger than me (18) who i met at my good friends house where i frequent who has a younger brother i'm chill with as well as his bro being friends with my sister. i first met her at their crib when he was throwing down and me and my friends were chillin there watching a nba playoff game. since i met her i think she wants to fuck but actually likes me as well. she smokes and knows i smoke. we accidentally found out we're both into LSD which is dope. she is always looking to grab my attention and shoot shit with me. we flirt as well and she made sure to break the touch barrier early now all she does is touch my face (primarily cuz of my beard because i touched it up for a few girls i know, her being one of them). every time we meet she gets so excited to see me but it's all very random since we don't run in the same circles. when we're around i give her these knowing looks with a nice smile on my face she's grabbing on to me one way or another so i'm really enjoying the vibe between us.
the thing is that the times i have seen her in these party/chill environments i haven't been able to get her away from everybody where it wouldn't be blatantly obvious that we're off together smoking and fucking. so i've met her three times already, is it appropriate to add her on facebook and ask her to chill alone not at that friends' place or should i wait the next time i see her there? i don't want to miss this pretty obvious if i've ever seen one opportunity but i also want to tread lightly. i've been striking out and not truly understanding why so i wanna take it slowly with this girl. besides the fact she looks like she's be a great lay she's also pretty cool too. we have similar interests and i enjoy her energy. she's very outgoing and as a more reserved (NOT shy) person i am attracted to that opposite.
UPDATE 2: but yea, i got a second opinion and decided i'm gonna wait to see if i can see her in person again sometime before the weekend. if not i'm just gonna go the fb route. we already know each other so that makes it alot less weird. but it will definitely require my game to be alot more on point. we will see. fucking waiting and fuck lust
Edited by HelpMeOutHo, 21 June 2012 - 07:20 PM.