how to ask stepdad to toke wit me

[teh anthony]

so yeah.. need some advice. see my mom's husband smokes pot (i'm not sure how often but often enough).... he tries to hide it but come on, u can't hide that stuff from your 18 year old kid lol. anyways we're really different anyway...... i'm kinda the indoor type.. i fuck around on my computer, play video games, artistic shit, i go to parties but i don't like big parties with many people i don't know(i'm kinda anti-social)............... he on the other hand is the outdoors hunter/mechanic/farmer type..... bout the only thing we really have in common is we both like to play hold'em and we both smoke weed lol........ and a lot of the same music tastes too....

so yeah anyways....... how should i go about asking him to smoke with me? llol...... honestly i think it would only strengthen our relationship (we've never talked more than we've had to) ........ i would like to go hunting with him but i need a way to get to know him better first and feel comfortable around him (i should by now they've been together for like 8-10 years) ....... and he's a cool shit guy i think it's too bad we've never connected......... i really don't want to flat out ask him...... i want to have him like either "accidently" stumble on me doing it and then me offering a hit to him........ or i dont know........... anyone got any tips lol? keep in mind this is going to be very ackward for me at first cuz i've never been open at all... and we're both kinda quiet (until we're comfortable with the people we're around i mean) .... a 1 on 1 basis for me and him would be weird........ sometimes we've gone fishing ya know downed some beers.. but my mom was always there so we never really got the 1 on 1 shit.......... or should i just ask him to smoke up with me somtime when we're home alone together ( not too often tho) ... maybe he'd somehow appreciate that, then we could put in some pink floyd and play some halo or osmething i don't know lol... help !

[DietBong]

I would watch him carefully and try and catch him while he is smoking. Say something like "What the fuck are you doing?" and then be like "nah, just playin" and whip out a joint and toke up.

[modern-hippy]

joke around and say something like "yeah man we should toke it out sometime!" say it as if your just kiiding around.... and wait to see what his reaction is

[illsmosisyou]

ask him to play you in hold em and while you're playing just be ann nonchelant and say, "soo...you like mary jane?". if he's caught off guard (which i know he will be), just say your cool with it and you smoke yourself. then offer to smoke with him sometime.

hell, something in common is always good.

[Stytchiz]

The reason I am writing this is because I was in the exact same situation that you are n now, only about 3 years ago, and I have been smokin with him ever since. I was living in florida and although i knew my stepdad smoked weed at some point, I didnt know if he was at the point in time. I had only smoked a couple of times before then, and so i was still nervous as hell about being caught, but i saw my stepdad and his m8 go out to the shed one evening and smokeclouds started coming out the window. So i basically walked over there and had a cig then asked my stepdad if he wanted to smoke a bowl. Since then we get high on a regular basis, and he often gets my green for me when he gets his, which is even cooler. PS my mom also knows i smoke and shes cool, she has smoked as well.

[potguy]

just get caught, if he smokes weed he wouldn't care

[AllBlind420]

My friend asked his stepdad to toke with him by just jokin around. The stepdad found a drawing of a marijuana leaf that he drew on his folder and said "wouldn't it be funny if we were stoned together" and he said "I haven't done it for a while so.. yeah I guess it would be fun" then he told his step dad how about this weekend and thats how they started smoking... Ive smoked with him only a few times but my friend does it like everyday before he comes to school... what a lucky guy. Well, I hope everything works out with ya man... good luck

[Motoxridah]

Either come home when your eyes are really red and make sure he sees that or.... ask him if he wants to go on a hunting/fishing trip sometime. While out there pull out some weed and a pipe and say mind if I smoke? Hopefully he will be cool wid it and smoke with ya. But then again I don't know how comfortable he would be with a stoned step son holding a 12 gauge right next to him lol

[Lodo]

^^ yes i would definitley go fishing if you were gonna ask him on a trip like that lol

weed + guns = probably not a good idea

[teh anthony]

lol yeah all good ideas... sometimes him and my mom have a bunch of people out playin cards .. allkindas of people (my mom's best friend is a 22 year old college student who is hot :/.. my mom is 38 hehe.. stepdad is 35 i think maybe 36)... my step dad goes and smokes with a few that smoke a lot, i've always felt left out ... lol but yeah all good ideas .. any one of them would work i just gotta wait for a good oppurtunity. my mom knows i smoke weed she doesn't exactly like it but she jokes about it and doesn't really mind. she found one of my pipes when i was newer to it and gave it back lol. hell she helped me find shit to start growing my mushrooms, she's crazy cool shit tho she doesn't do drugs and doesn't drink. when i first started smoking pot i had a few friends over and we were smokin it she caught me ... she actually wsa mad that first time (and so was my stepdad from what i hear) but ever since then i think my mom is cool about it..... cuz she knows i'm more mature about it now. i'll tell you how it goes if i get up the nerve to confront him about it, lol.. later days

[TheDudeAbides]

walk up to him and say "Do you mind if i do a J?" and start toking

[chiefdubleblunt]

Originally Posted by DietBong

I would watch him carefully and try and catch him while he is smoking. Say something like "What the fuck are you doing?" and then be like "nah, just playin" and whip out a joint and toke up.

this sounds like the best idea to me..........

[nosemonster]

^ yea that sounds like the best to me too. but it might be hard to catch him

[AllBlind420]

Well I hope everything goes well for ya man, your mom sounds hella cool...

[Noldster]

Originally Posted by DietBong

I would watch him carefully and try and catch him while he is smoking. Say something like "What the fuck are you doing?" and then be like "nah, just playin" and whip out a joint and toke up.

Ahahahahaha I remember one of the GC members did something like that with his dad where he caught him tokin in the garage and whipped out a blunt. Don't remember who.