ok so heres the deal.

[freethemind516]

as you can tell, i love smoking, but im dating a girl who dosnt and my rents are very against it.

it helps me be less depressed and more relaxed, but its hard to focus enough to stay ontop of keep a relationship and all that. i feel that awkward distance from my rents and feel i cant let them know me. you know?

and my gf likes to talk everynight, and if im stoned i hateee texting. so i say stupid things. i feel shes dissapointed in me. idk what the hell to do. any advise will help. no bashers please.

thanks -FTM516

[dsmor180]

do what makes YOU happy man, if you feel better around your girl and dont even wanna smoke when you are with her then great, if not its either continuing blazing and her being "dissapointed" in you or you breaking up with her.

[-Jim Morrison-]

i was in the same situation man. Gf didnt like it and either did my parents. In the end i got kicked out of my house, stayed with her...went to jail for weed, lost my girlfriend, then moved to north dakota with a friend lol. I regret it all. weed caused problems with her..my advice to you, dont smoke anymore. Im sure she wouldnt care if you did it maybe 1 or twice every 6 weeks or so, but dont be a pothead. Youll be hiding it and shit when your with her...it sucks man. OR you can just be super sleek about it and maybe youll get away with it

[freethemind516]

hey thanks alot for your help. i think im going to cut back quite a bit. i think that will help. well now i have to shovel some ice. x[

[gardenfresh]

yeah i'd say take a t-break for like two weeks, three weeks, maybe a month.... and see how you feel. if you are genuinely happy with her, than the weed is not as important. if you are unhappy, well the great thing about mary jane is that her love is unconditional and no matter how many times we stab her in the back for girls, food, police, what have you... any time we turn around back to her shes waiting with open arms to let you back in her life.

good luck.

[EdgarOregon100]

I'm assuming you're young (late teens/early twenties), so the best course of action at this point is to enjoy your life.

If you wanna spend it with the girl, go ahead.

If you wanna blaze the reef, do that.

Me personally, I wouldn't consider a chick that wasn't at least cool with me smoking. But it's all about what you want.

[freethemind516]

Originally Posted by gardenfresh

yeah i'd say take a t-break for like two weeks, three weeks, maybe a month.... and see how you feel. if you are genuinely happy with her, than the weed is not as important. if you are unhappy, well the great thing about mary jane is that her love is unconditional and no matter how many times we stab her in the back for girls, food, police, what have you... any time we turn around back to her shes waiting with open arms to let you back in her life.

good luck.

hahahah that was epic.

[Royalblunts]

it all depends on how much u like the girl...i just had a ceremonial last-toke last night by myself because my girlfriend said shes gonna start drug testing me but to me shes worth it...i can easily do it without getting caught and withought causing problems but i cant beat the dt's!! my advice to you would be to just do it occasionally and only when you can just chill somewhere...not around her!

[EdgarOregon100]

Originally Posted by Royalblunts

it all depends on how much u like the girl...i just had a ceremonial last-toke last night by myself because my girlfriend said shes gonna start drug testing me but to me shes worth it...i can easily do it without getting caught and withought causing problems but i cant beat the dt's!! my advice to you would be to just do it occasionally and only when you can just chill somewhere...not around her!

Are you serious dude? You're allowing a girl to make you piss in a cup?

I wouldn't even have second thoughts dumping that chick. Let her get in some other guys' hair.