My time has come and the loss was almost total

[randommick]

Aside from saying this was very nicely written...

I quit smoking for the military for 4 years.
I got out, and started again shortly after.
I don't regret a motherfucking second of either choice.

I guess there are just times in most people's lives where they quit for some reason or another. Most come back, but some don't.

But hopefully while you're away you enjoy the sobriety, and then if you find the right time, enjoy getting wasted again.

[bmanrocker]

When I smoke my J at my aunts house tonight, i'm gunna be thinking of you man. Heres to you, brother

[GUD_LAWD]

no. fuck that.

end of the day you only have to answer to yourself and God. stick to your guns and dont apologize.

sounds like you are a good member of society, productive and caring. the smoking isnt hurting anyone, your friends were doing it completely independent of you. they are just trying to blame you for their failed parenting.

dont let anyone make you feel guilty for your actions. guilt should only come from within and your own moral code.

[stonedandwhat?]

wow haha i think you should go back to smoking with your other friends instead of your brothers lol or use this whole thing to convince your brothers that you don't smoke anymore. I mean if you can go 6 years without getting caught and can't go like 4 sessions without having to quit with your brothers thats kinda bad :P. but i mean choices up to you quitting probably better choice but mannnn its pot .

[DaN-]

I don't see why you can't just go back to smoking to yourself and keeping it on the down-low again. But it's your choice. gl in the future.

[stonedandwhat?]

Originally Posted by DaN-

I don't see why you can't just go back to smoking to yourself and keeping it on the down-low again. But it's your choice. gl in the future.

haha stoners think alike :P look at the message right above that one :P

[Stangfriik]

Originally Posted by GUD_LAWD

no. fuck that.

end of the day you only have to answer to yourself and God. stick to your guns and dont apologize.

sounds like you are a good member of society, productive and caring. the smoking isnt hurting anyone, your friends were doing it completely independent of you. they are just trying to blame you for their failed parenting.

dont let anyone make you feel guilty for your actions. guilt should only come from within and your own moral code.

Exactly! You have just done what the government and society had hoped it would do. It made you cave in and abandon your own beliefs and pleasures just so that you could be more accepted.

That's the problem with people nowadays. When faced with a difficult situation, they take the easiest road out instead of standing up for what they believe.

If you enjoy doing something that obviously has no detrimental effects to your well being but is being cast into darkness by society, why would you let others dictate how you live your life?

[DaN-]

Originally Posted by stonedandwhat?

haha stoners think alike :P look at the message right above that one :P

hahha, hell yeah. LoL.

Personally, I don't think I ever see myself quitting. I will be a pot toker for the rest of my life. Obviously, there will be breaks in there for when I join a military branch for i.e, but once that crap is over i am gonna be back smoking. Pothead for life. lol.

[DaN-]

Originally Posted by Stangfriik

That's the problem with people nowadays. When faced with a difficult situation, they take the easiest road out instead of standing up for what they believe.

lolwut? Easiest road?

Quitting for me would be 10x harder then not quitin at all.

(vaginapenisvaginagah;gh;ahvagina sorry for the double post)

[MyBuddyJebus]

You showed a great level a maturity in my book OP. Sometimes situations call for big descisions like in the OP's case. For those that say he should just keep smoking I believe they don't understand how to be "diplomatic" in a situation like this. He is choosing to stop smoking to keep his future secure and keep his family from being attacked by his best friend's family. Responsible use also means quitting in situations that can become harmful to yourself and others. Hopefully after you graduate college and move out you can pick up smoking again. Sucky ending to what sounded like a really awesome day.

[aero18]

Originally Posted by MyBuddyJebus

You showed a great level a maturity in my book OP. Sometimes situations call for big descisions like in the OP's case. For those that say he should just keep smoking I believe they don't understand how to be "diplomatic" in a situation like this. He is choosing to stop smoking to keep his future secure and keep his family from being attacked by his best friend's family. Responsible use also means quitting in situations that can become harmful to yourself and others. Hopefully after you graduate college and move out you can pick up smoking again. Sucky ending to what sounded like a really awesome day.

This deserves good reputation. Thanks for your slice of wisdom.

+Rep

[Tiocfaidh Ár Lá]

that sucks.. i take it your friends are in high school or what?

[GTea]

Originally Posted by Tiocfaidh Ár Lá

that sucks.. i take it your friends are in high school or what?

Yes they are. Im 18 and you know what that means

Originally Posted by twotoedtoad

I don't see why this is your problem. Are you still in HS or something? Don't let another kid's folly mess with your life in any way.

Im a junior in college and about to grad with my BBA in two years. (I went to an accelerated school)

Maybe smoking isn't for you afterall.

Its a great hobby but my life is not about a plant.

Originally Posted by Funk-D

Sounds like your problem is your not fucking smoking with big boys. Seriously if a kid lives with his parents and gets put up against the wall for smoking weed, you don't need to be dealing with him. Sounds like a temp problem that can easily be forgotten....it happens man don't freak out over it be more careful...or smoke with actual grown ups...not kids.

Like I said my Younger friends got me fucked over. My other friends are legit x10 what I am when it comes to being real with their herb.

Originally Posted by Stangfriik

Exactly! You have just done what the government and society had hoped it would do. It made you cave in and abandon your own beliefs and pleasures just so that you could be more accepted.

That's the problem with people nowadays. When faced with a difficult situation, they take the easiest road out instead of standing up for what they believe.

If you enjoy doing something that obviously has no detrimental effects to your well being but is being cast into darkness by society, why would you let others dictate how you live your life?

Im 18. just because I quit now doesnt mean I wont toke up when I move out or move on to a bigger college. My life has always been my choice and my job has always been to protect those I love. As far as Im concerned I MADE my own choice to quit for now. I never said forever. Further more I am protecting my family by doing such and fullfilling my responsibility to them.

its my life and if I want I can tell anyone to fuck themselves but its up to me to decide if thats the best course of action. If thats the BEST and most REASONABLE way to handel things.

No one tells an individual, whether you or me, what to do. Only that individual decides whether or not to choose one way or another and through such submitting themselves to other's wills whether temporarily or permanently.

[Tiocfaidh Ár Lá]

so basically there is nothing you can do.

your under 18 so your just gonna have to live with it bro.

[GTea]

Originally Posted by Tiocfaidh Ár Lá

so basically there is nothing you can do.

your under 18 so your just gonna have to live with it bro.

Dude reread what I wrote lol

I said I AM 18 and a Junior in *College*