Help!! my friend's girl is all over me!

[stickyone13]

A real good buddy of mine just started seeing this new girl. she's chill, pretty cool, not smokin hot by any means, but definitely cute enough for him. This weekend he brought her around for the third time. I don't know if she just got drunk and horny or what, but shit man. she definitely wasn't hammered. Whenever my boy wasn't around, she instantly became a close-talker, very touchy-feely, and would start talking in her sexy voice. I mean, she's not really my type or anything, and i would NEVER do that to a friend of mine, but it's becoming pretty uncomfortable, since it definitely escalated throughout the night. The worst part of it is i'm not the only one she was hitting on. my buddy jammin (the three of us are moving into a house in may) got it even worse than i did, and she was layin it on me pretty thick. she actually kissed his neck. How do i handle it? jammin and i talked about it that night while i gave him a ride to his car, and we're at a total loss. How do you tell one of your best friends that his girl is tryin to make it with both of his future roommates? I'm pretty sure i can't just leave it alone for very long, cause the last thing i want is for her to move in and him to get the wrong idea. right now i'm thinkin next time we have a sesh with just us three i'll bring up what he thinks of her, after tipping jammin off as to the direction i'ma take the conversation, so we can tag-team it, maybe try to trick him into phasing her out. your take?

[DCW_4]

Man, you gotta do what's right. Try to talk with him.

[TokinMartian]

This monkeys gone to heaven

[theVirtuoso]

forget tag team, triple team the chick


nah, just sit him down and give him a talk. if they havent been dating for very long then it shouldnt be hard for him to take/believe if his 2 good friends are there telling him.

[BlazinDazon]

The best route would be to talk to your friend about it, cause if he finds out bits and pieces later its just asking for trouble. About a month ago I noticed one of my best friends girlfriend was looking at me differently, like Id look at her and shes all shy all of the sudden when it was never like that before, I also saw her checkin me out quite a few times. But basically a month later she left my friend and he was devestated so I wish I had atleast giving him some kind of warning or whatnot.

So at the very least warn him that she might not be very trustworthy

[MW3]

woop that trick

[eclipsedesign]

Spit Roast tbh....

J/k

[Eckolaker]

Bros before hoes.

Tell your homie, thats what good friends do. Its a touchy subject but it something that you should do if you value your friendship. I would do the same for my friends, and I would hope they would do the same for me.

[Blaze_It_Up420]

I would just be straight up with both the girl and your friend.

[RuseOfMetacarpi]

Yeah you just gotta be straight up about shit like this. I mean, just be like dude, I'm tryin to tap your girl and she's all over me anyway, is that straight? I guarantee you guys will be friends for life AND you get to tap it.

maybe I misunderstood the problem here.

[Rotten_Apple]

yea man talk to him about it real soon before he feels real close to her and gets even stronger feelings for her

[GotoAKellerShow]

CHOOOOOOOOO CHOOOOOOOO
^train whistle

[Perpetual Burn]

Originally Posted by RuseOfMetacarpi

Yeah you just gotta be straight up about shit like this. I mean, just be like dude, I'm tryin to tap your girl and she's all over me anyway, is that straight? I guarantee you guys will be friends for life AND you get to tap it.

maybe I misunderstood the problem here.

Yeah, he doesn't want to get with her at all...

OP, yeah you gotta tell your friend about this girl. Make sure he realizes that she's not really wifey material unless she changes her ways. He can stick it out a little bit with her if he just wants the ass, but he's gotta know the truth. Not telling him is only gonna be for the worse... he's gonna grow more and more attached with time, and if she doesn't get with you or jammin (lol, is that what you guys really call him?,) she's just gonna whore-out with another dude and hurt your friend then. If he's cool, he'll understand that you're telling him for the best... or at least what most-logical thought about the situation would seem to be the best.

[stickyone13]

Originally Posted by Perpetual Burn

Yeah, he doesn't want to get with her at all...

OP, yeah you gotta tell your friend about this girl. Make sure he realizes that she's not really wifey material unless she changes her ways. He can stick it out a little bit with her if he just wants the ass, but he's gotta know the truth. Not telling him is only gonna be for the worse... he's gonna grow more and more attached with time, and if she doesn't get with you or jammin (lol, is that what you guys really call him?,) she's just gonna whore-out with another dude and hurt your friend then. If he's cool, he'll understand that you're telling him for the best... or at least what most-logical thought about the situation would seem to be the best.

Yeah, i know i've gotta say something, but i'm not looking forward to it. his last girlfriend came on to me pretty hard towards the end of their relationship too, so i'm a little worried he'll take this as a developing pattern, and think that i'm intentionally doing something to perpetuate this. I mean, i treat all my friends' girlfriends (the good ones) like i'd treat my cousin or any other of my guy friends. I don't know what the deal is. She came onto Jammin harder, so i think i'm gonna make him take the lead, so i can just chime in.

haha, yeah, WE call him jammin, but i guess that's his stoner name or something. we call him jammin, everyone else calls him ben. we've also got a zilly.

[RuseOfMetacarpi]

ps I was jk'n 4rl