Just Been Banned From Reefer

[DCW_4]

My g/f just banned me from mary jane until I move out of my parents house, and even then it's not likely she'll let me/us. That's so uncool.

Anyway, I've tried reasoning with her, but theres just no use. The story is that she has a very low tolerance to THC, and even 1/2 of a small bowl can send her into orbit. Well, yesterday she decided that she wanted to try more than she usually does, and she had 1 large bowl and a half. She had such a bad trip - she was freakin' out the whole time, and now she's too scared to smoke again, and forbids me too as well.

I think that she was freaking out because she isn't use to smokin' so much and being that hooter-billied, but we both had the same amount to put us on the same level of high, and I have to admit, it was pretty crazy. Kick ass as hell, but crazy. I have never experienced a high like that; it was some seriously dank-ass shit.

How do you guys think I should convince her that it was only a bad trip and that I won't let her have that happen again? I am not going to break up with her, so that's outta the queston.

BTW, the high was AMAZING. You can bet your ass I'm finishing the rest of that weed, even if it is behind her back. The weed is just too good.

[MW3]

Tell her she has to respect that marijuana is apart of you.

[Ktwizzy]

Originally Posted by MW3

Tell her she has to respect that marijuana is apart of you.

Well said brothern

[Cakey]

I'd say my best advise it to sit her down and talk with her about it. Tell her how you fell...and explain the tolerance things and tell her that your feelings are still strong about Ganj. And if she can't respect that then maybe you need to talk deeper than that.

[Rotten_Apple]

maybe you both should take a little break. and yea talk to her about it and just dont have her smoke so much next time.

[PrimaryLotus]

Just explain to her rationally that she's got a low tolerance, and that she doesn't have to smoke if she doesn't want to. Then ask her why you can't smoke anymore.

[Reggin]

I've come to realize that rationalizing with girls that are like that doesn't work sometimes. And in the end sacrificing who you are for somebody else isn't worth it. If they can't accept you for who you are and what you do, then it's not meant to be. Everyone has to give their partner the freedom of life in certain aspects, it just comes with the territory.

[SlimPickins]

Originally Posted by Reggin

I've come to realize that rationalizing with girls that are like that doesn't work sometimes. And in the end sacrificing who you are for somebody else isn't worth it. If they can't accept you for who you are and what you do, then it's not meant to be. Everyone has to give their partner the freedom of life in certain aspects, it just comes with the territory.

Well said, especially that first line, soooo true. Just from reading the post,
this sounds like a girl that you arent going to be able to rationalize with.

One more thing, dont let her tell you what you can and cannot do because
you'll grow up to be a big pussy. (its happening to someone in my family right now)

[db4lyfe]

never stop smoking unless thats what you wanna do don't sacrifice who you are just cause of a chick oh yeah tell her not to smoke so much thats alot since she doesn't smoke very much along with it being Dank

[paintballa0407]

Ask her why it was okay for you to smoke when she did. Now it's not okay for you to smoke just because she had a bad experiance? Sounds like she's trying to controll you and have her do what she is doing. Tell her that you do not want to live her life and you wanna live your own, and that includes making your own decisions about what you do. Just try and talk her back into it and explain that if shes gonna be constantly paranoid then when she smoke thats all she will be.

[bert_mcgirt]

Originally Posted by DCW_4

My g/f just banned me from mary jane until I move out of my parents house, and even then it's not likely she'll let me/us. That's so uncool.

are you still allowed to play with your dollies, Alice?

[420FLASmoka]

You need to set that broad straight, sounds like she thinks she can Betty Crocker your ass, whip you up a lil bit and make a sweetboy cake outta ya.

She should respect and love you for who you are, not who she can change you into.

[Perpetual Burn]

First off, she sounds weird to me... who the hell freaks out from smoking bud? Even dank, a body high isn't that scary.

Second, tell her she was "freaking out" because she has a low tolerance level. Tell her not to smoke as much, if she does again. You can't let someone else's experience affect your own, and conversely you cannot let your experience affect someone else's. Tell her you don't have any problem with smoking... and that you rather like it.

Maybe you're not gonna break up with her, but if she'd break up with you for something as trivial as smoking in your free time, then it's just not meant to be. If she doesn't want you to smoke around her; that's fine, you should respect that. But on your own time (unless you're one of those dudes that get a girl and lose all their alone time/time with guy friends,) you can do what you want... it'll give you time to hang out with your friends, worked for a friend of mine who's girl didn't smoke. If she likes you enough, she'll give you your space and let you do want you want in that space.

If not, she's a psycho-bitch.

[DCW_4]

I'm looking into marrying this girl. And I would give up weed to be with her. But I gues the problem is that I'm just not ready to give up weed right now. I enjoy it so much, as do the rest of ya, but I am thinking about telling her that I'm just not ready to give it up yet.

Then I'm sure she'll go on some rant about me being an addict (which I'm not), and how it was a bad idea in the first place for her to condone it.

I just don't know what to tell her, or even if I should.

[BongReviews]

bad trip on weed. hahahahhaha