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so there's this girl that I've chilled with a couple of times and she is absolutely gorgeous! She has a great personality and can pearl blunts ;). I kinda like her but I can't tell if she likes me or not. Like we text pretty often and she even text me first sometimes and when we hangout we just talk and laugh and smoke ahahah. She's so cool but idk if she's in to me... sometimes I really think she is but I really can't make it out. Can you guys give me some advice on the situation?

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Just play it off cool and see where her head is at, if you catch my drift. Ask her about boyfriends and things like that, but you always gotta make it seem as though as your slightly interested but just really don't give a fuck.

Females like when guys play a little bit hard to get and all that but you gotta be cool with it. Example of a conversations. Don't jump right into, maybe mid convo when you guys are toking up.

You: So I figured you don't have a boyfriend or anything like that. Why not? Your hella cute.(Cool face cool tone, don't even look in her face when saying this)
Her: No I don't lol, but that. Blah blah blah ( on why she doesn't have a BF )
You: Word I feel you,( if you find something interesting on why she doesn't have a boyfriend, use it for why you don't have a GF)

And just keep dragging on the convo, and then tell her how you like her and thinks shes cool as fuck. And if she wants to just be friends, you would respect that. But do this while looking in her eyes.

Mans it's all a game, and I can keep going and going if I wanted to lol. You just gotta know the game man.
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that's a great idea like I kinda think she likes me cause she acts like it and whenever I want to chill she jumps for the chance but I'm gonna hit her with the line you told me. and I've been giving her little hints that I like her but not too much so I think I'm on the right track

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Just play it off cool and see where her head is at, if you catch my drift. Ask her about boyfriends and things like that, but you always gotta make it seem as though as your slightly interested but just really don't give a fuck.

Females like when guys play a little bit hard to get and all that but you gotta be cool with it. Example of a conversations. Don't jump right into, maybe mid convo when you guys are toking up.

You: So I figured you don't have a boyfriend or anything like that. Why not? Your hella cute.(Cool face cool tone, don't even look in her face when saying this)
Her: No I don't lol, but that. Blah blah blah ( on why she doesn't have a BF )
You: Word I feel you,( if you find something interesting on why she doesn't have a boyfriend, use it for why you don't have a GF)

And just keep dragging on the convo, and then tell her how you like her and thinks shes cool as fuck. And if she wants to just be friends, you would respect that. But do this while looking in her eyes.

Mans it's all a game, and I can keep going and going if I wanted to lol. You just gotta know the game man.


This guy knows what he's talking about. I made the mistake of trying/pushing too hard, it ended up being a waste of time.

But for christs sake, I stayed the night at that girls house like 6 times, every time but one we ended up cuddling on the couch and making out. And she would say shit like "I want a boyfriend blah blah"

But everytime I tried to make a relationship instead of just a summer fling, she just played it off like she didn't know what I was doing.

I hate that fucking whore

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This guy knows what he's talking about. I made the mistake of trying/pushing too hard, it ended up being a waste of time.

But for christs sake, I stayed the night at that girls house like 6 times, every time but one we ended up cuddling on the couch and making out. And she would say shit like "I want a boyfriend blah blah"

But everytime I tried to make a relationship instead of just a summer fling, she just played it off like she didn't know what I was doing.

I hate that fucking whore


yea I've made the same mistake before trying too hard... and yea I'm gonna take his advice it should help... also I think I'm gonna ask her to the movies next weekend and smoke a blunt before so something should def happen that night

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yea I've made the same mistake before trying too hard... and yea I'm gonna take his advice it should help... also I think I'm gonna ask her to the movies next weekend and smoke a blunt before so something should def happen that night


Sounds like a plan, my man.

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so there's this girl that I've chilled with a couple of times and she is absolutely gorgeous! She has a great personality and can pearl blunts ;). I kinda like her but I can't tell if she likes me or not. Like we text pretty often and she even text me first sometimes and when we hangout we just talk and laugh and smoke ahahah. She's so cool but idk if she's in to me... sometimes I really think she is but I really can't make it out. Can you guys give me some advice on the situation?


are you having trouble feeling her out cause your not playing the game well?
give her a compliment, see how she reacts.
make a move

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are you having trouble feeling her out cause your not playing the game well?
give her a compliment, see how she reacts.
make a move


you're right I've made little gestures but nothing too serious it's time for me to step my game up!
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Here's what you do: Invite her over to watch movie, ask her if she'd like popcorn, cut hole in bottom of popcorn tub and insert penis, allow her to eat enough until she finds the golden ticket, then judge by her reaction if she likes you or not- 60% of the time, it works every time :D

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Ahh, the art of linguistics and the misery in trying to teach it to another person!

I hope things work out positively for you in this matter! Even if people are not destined to be soul-mates, it certainly can be worth the fun of the game!

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Even if people are not destined to be soul-mates, it certainly can be worth the fun of the game!


good point that's all I'm really looking for at this time in my life

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Ask if she wants second smoke or a shotgun hit whatever you call it. You take the hit then blow it in her mouth. Make a move or you'll never know.

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Subbed. Tell us when you get it in, OP.

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Hey OP, What you could do is roll up a proper fattie and before you light it, look at her and tell her, "The only way you're hitting this J is if you go out with me" in a joking manner and see how she takes it.

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good point that's all I'm really looking for at this time in my life


In my opinion, which is limited by lack of experience as I am admittedly NOT a pick-up artist of any sorts, it is best to approach things openly. By that I mean I feel people are setting themselves up for failure when they see the person they're interested in as some sort of idealized ideology of perfection. Generally that approach usually forces people into uncomfortable positions. I recommend looking for happiness in the meantime with relationships and if things just so happen to go on, then they do-and that's that. Definitely take some risks though. It can be hard to be bold, but it is necessary. It represents a form of confidence, whether or not it truly is bravado.

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Subbed. Tell us when you get it in, OP.


hopefully very soon brotha ahahaha

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exactly man that's the same way I look at things

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Hey OP, What you could do is roll up a proper fattie and before you light it, look at her and tell her, "The only way you're hitting this J is if you go out with me" in a joking manner and see how she takes it.


damn that is smooth as shit ahahah I will def use that in the future ahah

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Idk man, best advice is treat her like a person.. most girls just want you to be real with them.. unless they're into some domination shit =D

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When you guys are smoking a blunt do a shotgun with her and kiss her at the same time.




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