Girls and Guys, Do you think this behavior is strange?

[ISmokeRock]

Hi there,

A question about my relationship. Sexual question.

My girl doesn't like me to eat her out. I think I have a mighty talented tounge. She let me do it maybe once or twice when we first started dating, now she won't even let me kiss her down there. She said she prefers my fingers which I always give her a shuddering orgasm.

She said she doesn't like kissing me after I have eaten her out. I can understand that I guess. I kiss her after she had sucked me off but she has never made me cum while sucking me off.

She also used to give me blow j's too. Now not at all. She said she doesn't like seeing her spit on my dick and she is scared she will be bad at it.

I don't know if I am asking too much or if I am pressuring her, but usually every time we are alone we have maybe a few minutes making out and then she wants to fuck.

[BubbleFunker]

Perhaps she has some weird religious reasoning?

[Blutteufel]

How doe she feel about ?

[Cali Ounces]

just tell her whats up honestly,

say you miss incorporating that into foreplay. . .

try and sensitively find out her reasoning for disgregarding it as a valid method for arousal.









does it stink?

[This Dude]

She probably likes to kiss you while you fuck, and she doesn't like the smell of her own pussy...it's an aquired taste and smell that most girls don't like. And honestly most girls don't like sucking dick, unless they are extremely horny. And many not even then, they will usually just do it to make their man happy.

I'm sure she proly enjoys if you make her cum while eating her out. But a girls orgasm is a lot stronger when she's being fucked. So she probably thinks that foreplay is kinda pointless since she's gonna fuck you...I've met a lot of girls like that.

I just tell them I can't get completely hard unless they give me head...which is true somewhat. I get hard a lot quicker if I put my dick in a girls mouth rather then her pussy.

[turborunner]

RUN! RUN! FAST NOW! You are dating and can't get head WTF! Imagine when your married and she makes you get tampons at 3a.m. only to come home and have to beat off!

[Meursault]

It's not unusual at all. I've been with a few girls like this (note the past tense lol.)

[gord420]

I dont even know why someone would want to eat out a chick, wheres the pleasure for the man? Thats just one thing ive never got when it comes to sex is why someone would want to put there lips down there.

[Cali Ounces]

Originally Posted by This Dude

But a girls orgasm is a lot stronger when she's being fucked.

you sure about that?

[This Dude]

Originally Posted by Cali Ounces

you sure about that?

Yeah I'm pretty positive.

[eyeg0tgr33ns]

dude that sucks.

it's like the complete opposite for my chick. she loves it.

[EuDxKing]

I knew a chick that didnt want to be fingered, or eaten out.
But she loved to suck dick.

[flowerchild]

alright, alright ill be the first girl to say something..

In all honesty I can say that I know alllllllllot of girls that either don't like, or absolutely HATE when their man goes down on them.

Not saying you fellas aren't good at it- what they've told me is it feels good until... it gets too sloppy. I'm sure you guys can agree that it can be too wet down there- makes ya loose friction, therefore sex doesn't feel as good.

best advice i can give you is to try and keep as much of your spit in your mouth (not on her) as possible.



as for me? ill never tell.

[GimmieMore]

Originally Posted by This Dude

I'm sure she proly enjoys if you make her cum while eating her out. But a girls orgasm is a lot stronger when she's being fucked. So she probably thinks that foreplay is kinda pointless since she's gonna fuck you...I've met a lot of girls like that.

You're incorrect there buddy. Clitoral orgasms trump vaginal ones in almost all women. You are sooooooo sooooooooo off base with that one. Typical man, lol, j/k

In fact most women can't orgasm from just fucking.... they need either clitoral or gspot stimulation.

Originally Posted by gord420

I dont even know why someone would want to eat out a chick, wheres the pleasure for the man? Thats just one thing ive never got when it comes to sex is why someone would want to put there lips down there.

I love eating girls out. Multiple times I have climaxed while giving my girlfriend head.... If you don't enjoy it, perhaps you're not doing it right.... or maybe its just not for you

[EuDxKing]

I still have not even determined how to cause g-spot stimulation.
lol
and i am not too experienced with sex.
i mean.
i have had alot of chances.
just been too nervous.
because i know i cant last too long.
but its only been like 2 times
the other times i was too nervous that i wouldnt last.