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Old 01-23-2008, 09:34 PM
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Damn. Just finished talking to my ex and its put me on a huge downer.

Anyone actually keep in contact with their ex's? Right now it doesn't seem worth it.. looks like the chances of them stomping on your heart is still there even when you're no longer together

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I only have limited contact with 1 ex. She is incredibly talented and rich. I do sometimes wonder what might have been, but then I come to my senses. There is a reason we are not together. It wasn't meant to be. Maybe she wouldn't have the fortune and fame if we had stayed together. I have a connection with my current wife that I can't explain. We have the most incredible relationship. If I'd stayed with my ex, I'd be living the Hollywood life, and I probably would hate that.

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Damn. Just finished talking to my ex and its put me on a huge downer.

Anyone actually keep in contact with their ex's? Right now it doesn't seem worth it.. looks like the chances of them stomping on your heart is still there even when you're no longer together

tell me about it dude, always wanting to sleep over when she is in a reltionship, making lunch plans and always breakin em on me at the last second, i said fuck it i just quit answering her calls, but she still txt`s me constantly about shit i dont wanna talk about and when i say i dont wanna talk she goes off on me about not being mature anough to be friends, im like bitch,
we dated for over 4 years and you tore my heart out, i cant be your friend, know what i mean
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Old 01-23-2008, 10:14 PM
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we dated for over 4 years and you tore my heart out, i cant be your friend, know what i mean
Yeah man I know where you're coming from
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Old 01-29-2008, 11:12 PM
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Damn. Just finished talking to my ex and its put me on a huge downer.

Anyone actually keep in contact with their ex's? Right now it doesn't seem worth it.. looks like the chances of them stomping on your heart is still there even when you're no longer together

My ex calls me out of the blue every month or so... I hate it. Im always upset when we get off the phone... He wants to know why we cant just be friends and at least hang out or talk on the phone, but I seriously cant do that. He's lied to be about some pretty serious shit before and we've gotten in some really really gnarly-ass fights.

He's 100% drama-- loves that shit. He thrives on it. He loves to argue and get all hot-headed... Me? I'd rather chill... smoke a bowl... read together... take naps... go on walks... watch a movie... ANYTHING other than fight. I get really anxious during arguments because I dont handle confrontation very well.

Since the two of us broke up, my life has been so much better. I dont get sick as much from having all that stress in my life, Im always in a good mood, I dont swallow a bunch of benadryl at night like I used to so that I could just sleep through a whole evening's worth of fights... Everything is better. But he still insists on calling me and "catching up". and EVERYTIME... he gets so mad because I wont hang out with him or try and have a friendship. It sucks because its like... thats my perogative... Im not REQUIRED to be friends with him, but he tells me that Im immature for not being able to forgive him and move on... blah blah blah...

I care about him a lot but he has some mental issues that he needs to work out and I just dont think that we can ever be friends... Too much shit has gone down between the two of us. I think Im gonna have to stop answering when he calls because Ill go a month or two without hearing anything from him and then he pops up out of nowhere and within ten minutes, Im bawling my eyes out on the phone over shit that happened like a YEAR ago... Definitely time to move on.

Ive got a huge crush on this guy in one of my classes and also one on this guy who lives across the street from me... But I can never grow a pair and ask if they want to hang out sometime Cause Im a chiiiicken!! haha, but thats a whole other story.
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Old 01-29-2008, 11:17 PM
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my ex won't leave me alone. she texted me the other day to tell me the hamster i bought her died. i don't care. maybe thats mean but i don't. she left me for another girl and i could give two shits about her life. ugh. it just makes me mad. and then she IMs me calling me a man and all this crap. exs suck.
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my ex spent the night lastnite, wasnt a good idea, today i just wanna suck off a pistol
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I avoid her but it's not that sour or anything.
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Old 01-30-2008, 01:06 AM
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it just kicks my ass because shes the only chick that ever gave me complete freedom to be myself, i didnt want to smoke or anything with this chick its like a drug man, shell visit itll be akward for 5 mins then itll be like it was she will leae and im wantin to see her the next day and shit, theres no sex involved, but i wanna be around her the next day and cant be and it bums me out for a few days and as soon as i get over it itll happen again i was with this chick for over 4 years and we lived togher and shit.

damn i didnt mean to rant, but thats some real shit
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I have one ex. Occational she calls me or ims me when she's drunk telling me to come visit her. That's about it though.
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i told my ex when we broke up that we could keep talking..we did for a little bit but it just made it harder to move on...eventually i just stopped talking to her...

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My ex has been calling me and texting me all the time, and I made the mistake of hanging out with her, and now she wants to give it a second try. Jesus I dont know how im going to tell this bitch I dont want anything to do with her. She ended the relationship the first time now she wants to try it again? I just want to yell at her "BITCH NEVER TALK TO ME AGAIN, I DONT WANT YOU IN MY LIFE!"
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My ex has been calling me and texting me all the time, and I made the mistake of hanging out with her, and now she wants to give it a second try. Jesus I dont know how im going to tell this bitch I dont want anything to do with her. She ended the relationship the first time now she wants to try it again? I just want to yell at her "BITCH NEVER TALK TO ME AGAIN, I DONT WANT YOU IN MY LIFE!"
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Damn. Just finished talking to my ex and its put me on a huge downer.

Anyone actually keep in contact with their ex's? Right now it doesn't seem worth it.. looks like the chances of them stomping on your heart is still there even when you're no longer together

i only talk to one, she was pretty cool thats why.

but when i say talk, i mean we talk. . . i never see her i never go over.
mainly because ive moved on and i dont wanna revisit that bullshit that we called a relationship

why do you want to keep that memory in your life, i mean all it really does is remind you of it.

i guess if thats what you want, but my life never plays out smoothly so id rather delete that number and forget your name.
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yeah me and my ex have been going through shit been going downhill for some time now and then she started ignoring me and saying shes busy with work and tired when shes not. I try callin her to see when she wants me to hang out and she makes up stupid excuses i try to get a hold of her kindly and wait for her to return my call but as time goes on i got nothing. I then found out shes been texting her ex on the day we were supose to hang out and the day she couldnt call me or answer. She texted him like 50 times back and forth. Not sure what they were about cant even get her to answer the phone to confront her i paged her a few times on the internet and text but she wont respond so i called like 200 times in a row then she answered and clicked. shes like dont call i dont want to talk right now. then i said a bunch of mean things. after calling a few more times she gave her phone to her dad and im like hey ask her why shes a cheating backstabber and he's like ill find out but try to write a letter instead of calling.But it sucks and makes me pretty anxious all the time now so i just have to have a little visit every few hours with mary jane
 
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