Top Ten Myths about introverts

Myth #1 – Introverts don’t like to talk.
This is not true. Introverts just don’t talk unless they have something to say. They hate small talk. Get an introvert talking about something they are interested in, and they won’t shut up for days.
Myth #2 – Introverts are shy.
Shyness has nothing to do with being an Introvert. Introverts are not necessarily afraid of people. What they need is a reason to interact. They don’t interact for the sake of interacting. If you want to talk to an Introvert, just start talking. Don’t worry about being polite.
Myth #3 – Introverts are rude.
Introverts often don’t see a reason for beating around the bush with social pleasantries. They want everyone to just be real and honest. Unfortunately, this is not acceptable in most settings, so Introverts can feel a lot of pressure to fit in, which they find exhausting.
Myth #4 – Introverts don’t like people.
On the contrary, Introverts intensely value the few friends they have. They can count their close friends on one hand. If you are lucky enough for an introvert to consider you a friend, you probably have a loyal ally for life. Once you have earned their respect as being a person of substance, you’re in.
Myth #5 – Introverts don’t like to go out in public.
Nonsense. Introverts just don’t like to go out in public FOR AS LONG. They also like to avoid the complications that are involved in public activities. They take in data and experiences very quickly, and as a result, don’t need to be there for long to “get it.” They’re ready to go home, recharge, and process it all. In fact, recharging is absolutely crucial for Introverts.
Myth #6 – Introverts always want to be alone.
Introverts are perfectly comfortable with their own thoughts. They think a lot. They daydream. They like to have problems to work on, puzzles to solve. But they can also get incredibly lonely if they don’t have anyone to share their discoveries with. They crave an authentic and sincere connection with ONE PERSON at a time.
Myth #7 – Introverts are weird.
Introverts are often individualists. They don’t follow the crowd. They’d prefer to be valued for their novel ways of living. They think for themselves and because of that, they often challenge the norm. They don’t make most decisions based on what is popular or trendy.
Myth #8 – Introverts are aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who primarily look inward, paying close attention to their thoughts and emotions. It’s not that they are incapable of paying attention to what is going on around them, it’s just that their inner world is much more stimulating and rewarding to them.
Myth #9 – Introverts don’t know how to relax and have fun.
Introverts typically relax at home or in nature, not in busy public places. Introverts are not thrill seekers and adrenaline junkies. If there is too much talking and noise going on, they shut down. Their brains are too sensitive to the neurotransmitter called Dopamine. Introverts and Extroverts have different dominant neuro-pathways. Just look it up.
Myth #10 – Introverts can fix themselves and become Extroverts.
Introverts cannot “fix themselves” and deserve respect for their natural temperament and contributions to the human race. In fact, one study (Silverman, 1986) showed that the percentage of Introverts increases with IQ.


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I guess I am fit the definition of an introvert....

This will help.

introvertsplural of in·tro·vert (Noun)
1. A shy, reticent, and typically self-centered person.
2. A person predominantly concerned with their own thoughts and feelings rather than with external things.

EDIT: I'm a total introvert. minus the self-centeredness, I'm always concerned about others and those I love.

I couldn't agree with Myth 6 more.

Edited by Bong716, 20 July 2011 - 09:11 PM.

No-one should be ashamed/feel akward about being an introvert, but this list sounds like 10 reasons why it's okay to stay an introvert. As if people aren't at all responsible for the way in which they deal with life.

Obviously it's okay being introverted, but if someone doesn't like being like that (I didn't), there's no shame in trying to be more outgoing. It's not fixing yourself, it's improving yourself. Not bashing the poster, but the list just came across as "you can't help being the way you are, so there's no point in trying to change"

Speaking as a guy who went from extreme introvert to moderate extrovert.

Story of my life right here.

And yea Bong716, what the fuck dictionary did you get that from?

Introvert | Define Introvert at Dictionary.com

This will help.

introvertsplural of in·tro·vert (Noun)
1. A shy, reticent, and typically self-centered person.
2. A person predominantly concerned with their own thoughts and feelings rather than with external things.

I believe that applies to the general view of an introvert, but not to the psychological definition of one

+rep

I dig it.

No-one should be ashamed/feel akward about being an introvert, but this list sounds like 10 reasons why it's okay to stay an introvert. As if people aren't at all responsible for the way in which they deal with life.

Obviously it's okay being introverted, but if someone doesn't like being like that (I didn't), there's no shame in trying to be more outgoing. It's not fixing yourself, it's improving yourself. Not bashing the poster, but the list just came across as "you can't help being the way you are, so there's no point in trying to change"

Speaking as a guy who went from extreme introvert to moderate extrovert.

Agreed, it all depends on whether you like being an introvert or an extrovert.

I feel like a lot of introverts are uncomfortable about it because a lot of pressure is put on them for not being outgoing and that they should like something that they don't. I think that's why some try to fit in so hard.

Being outgoing is great but it's just not for everyone.

Edited by Thessentials, 20 July 2011 - 09:29 PM.

Story of my life right here.

And yea Bong716, what the fuck dictionary did you get that from?

Introvert | Define Introvert at Dictionary.com

I went to google.com and typed in Define: introvert and that was what is on top. Easy peasey .

This introverted man approves.

good read +repppp

INTP = me.
Strong I and T.


What's your MBTI?

I am an introvert almost to a fault. You pretty much described me to a T.

People have given me shit about how introverted I am my whole life.

I took the Jung typology test, and I scored 100% introverted.

That's an excellent read, I wish people would view introverts in a different light. I have a million things to say (look how wordy I am on this damn forum), and a million more things to say I don't talk about very often. People think I'm "awkward" sometimes, including my lame ass girlfriend (lol), but usually I'm just chilling and deep in thought. I don't have any trouble talking to people.

Anyone else feel like their introversion is more dependent on who they are with? Simple fact of the matter is, a lot of the stuff I like to talk about is too deep for most people. Getting responses like "I dunno what that is" or "Wow, you're smart....." is not that stimulating, so I just converse with myself.

dude, i just stumbled this article and gave it a thumbs up!

wow this is crazy i definitely identified with all the explanations, good shit

Ill introvert my cock in ur ass and extrovert ur anal walls..

People have given me shit about how introverted I am my whole life.

I took the Jung typology test, and I scored 100% introverted.

That's an excellent read, I wish people would view introverts in a different light. I have a million things to say (look how wordy I am on this damn forum), and a million more things to say I don't talk about very often. People think I'm "awkward" sometimes, including my lame ass girlfriend (lol), but usually I'm just chilling and deep in thought. I don't have any trouble talking to people.

Anyone else feel like their introversion is more dependent on who they are with? Simple fact of the matter is, a lot of the stuff I like to talk about is too deep for most people. Getting responses like "I dunno what that is" or "Wow, you're smart....." is not that stimulating, so I just converse with myself.

Were i live , people tend to be very stupid, so some people you cant even have a conversation, because they dont know half the stuff your talking about,... Whats weird about me is, im not the type of person to go up and talk to random people, on the hand my dad is completely opposite, he'll strike up a conversation anywhere, with anyone

Were i live , people tend to be very stupid, so some people you cant even have a conversation, because they dont know half the stuff your talking about,... Whats weird about me is, im not the type of person to go up and talk to random people, on the hand my dad is completely opposite, he'll strike up a conversation anywhere, with anyone

Same here, Southern California. Only thing you can talk about with people my age is Jersey Shore or whatever garbage is on the television lately. I don't watch TV so I sit there silently while people talk and they think I'm awkward. I think they're fucking awkward, ahaha.

This will help.

introvertsplural of in·tro·vert (Noun)
1. A shy, reticent, and typically self-centered person.
2. A person predominantly concerned with their own thoughts and feelings rather than with external things.

EDIT: I'm a total introvert. minus the self-centeredness, I'm always concerned about others and those I love.

I couldn't agree with Myth 6 more.

extrovert

1. loud obnoxius douche that doesnt stop talking about dumb shit
2. shut the fuck up


was that also in the dictionary?

im an introvert but you wouldn't suspect it depending on who i'm with. I know all about the re-charging thing....I'd come home, smoke a bowl or two and analyze experiences I just had that day or prior.