Sketchy Situation

[killermaxwell]

I'm going on a family vacation to NC and my cousins from Geogia are coming and the oldest girl will be 19. I don't know about now, but she used to smoke, pop xanies, snort coke, and ect. all that bad shit.

Problem is, she went to rehab, came back, and now is doing better in school, graduated and got a really high GPA like 3.4/3.6 or something.

Know IDK if she still smokes and drinks. Problem is when I'm in SC, I will smoke and drink, but idk if I should include her or w/e because I don't want her to relapse or what ever and fuck shit up.

On the other hand, if she can smoke bud, and responsibly drink and stay away from other shit, i'm sure it would be a great time.

Also, I can't straight out ask her because if she doesn't anymore she might tell my parents or other family members and that would be a bad time.


IDK what the fuck should i do?

[muzikman88]

Wait and see what she does.

Really tho, something like 95% of anyone who goes to rehab, if they are planning on staying clean, cant touch anything.

They're either totally clean, or a total mess.

I do know someone who is the exception.

Hes smoked weed since he was like 14 or something, didnt get into drinking a lot til he was like 18 or so.

Fast forward to age 25 and he admits he's got a problem and gets cleaned up.

Against the wishes of his AA sponsor, he still smokes weed. For him tho, pot was never the problem, he did that before his life started to get messy. He's been clean from alcohol and coke for over a year, all while smoking weed.

So I dunno, theres a chance she can still smoke, but I'm gonna say most likely not. Especially because she went to rehab, and because from what you said it sounds like she was trying a few different things.

I would bring up the topic of her going to rehab/getting clean. See what she says and how she says it. I'm sure you'll find your answer there.

[killermaxwell]

Originally Posted by muzikman88

Wait and see what she does.

Really tho, something like 95% of anyone who goes to rehab, if they are planning on staying clean, cant touch anything.

They're either totally clean, or a total mess.

I do know someone who is the exception.

Hes smoked weed since he was like 14 or something, didnt get into drinking a lot til he was like 18 or so.

Fast forward to age 25 and he admits he's got a problem and gets cleaned up.

Against the wishes of his AA sponsor, he still smokes weed. For him tho, pot was never the problem, he did that before his life started to get messy. He's been clean from alcohol and coke for over a year, all while smoking weed.

So I dunno, theres a chance she can still smoke, but I'm gonna say most likely not. Especially because she went to rehab, and because from what you said it sounds like she was trying a few different things.

I would bring up the topic of her going to rehab/getting clean. See what she says and how she says it. I'm sure you'll find your answer there.

Also, I should let you know that i barley know this cousin, last time I saw her was when I and her were like 7.

She doesn't know I do any shit, but she might assume.

[muzikman88]

Originally Posted by killermaxwell

Also, I should let you know that i barley know this cousin, last time I saw her was when I and her were like 7.

She doesn't know I do any shit, but she might assume.

Well if you barely know her, I'd be careful.

Wouldn't wanna piss your family off.

[killermaxwell]

Originally Posted by muzikman88

Well if you barely know her, I'd be careful.

Wouldn't wanna piss your family off.

Nah man, they wouldn't get pissed off now that I think of it.

Belive me, if shit comes down to it, I'm the most responsible fucker there when it comes to drugs and shit.

I've turned down a shitoad of FREE DRUGS people have offered me fucking Ecstacy, Coke, Valium, Xanax, and fucking Ativan and more shit. and I've turned all that shit down, i'm not for that bs.

Worst comes to worst, they'd be more pissed about the alcohol than bud. My parent know I puff kinda cuz I came home with red eyes lol but its straight.

[killermaxwell]

I just don't want to fuck shit up because everyone thinks shes drug free now, and if I end up smoking with her and shit, that could fuck a lot of shit up if we're caught.

[killermaxwell]

BUMP I wanna know

[stoned budda]

If she seeks it from you then thats on her, but dont be offering it or pushing it on her, because she might not even be thinking about it then all of a sudden you come along and offer it and the temptation is to great and shes using again. What happens will happen but keep it from her unless your approached.

[killermaxwell]

Originally Posted by stoned budda

If she seeks it from you then thats on her, but dont be offering it or pushing it on her, because she might not even be thinking about it then all of a sudden you come along and offer it and the temptation is to great and shes using again. What happens will happen but keep it from her unless your approached.

Word. I'm just gunna do whatever the fuck I want, and if it comes up, it comes up.