I think I'm gonna tell all my so called friends to fuck off...

We'll for awhile now I've been quite worried that my friends aren't really my friends, but then again I have issues with paranoia and being let down so I tried to not let it bother me. However it's starting to get to me, it seems that I only see my friends when I have weed or somethin else to party with(they seem to never contribute) and where we used to hang out every day, regardless of what we were doing or what had to be done, I haven't seen my closest friend in probably a week and half. Granted this is due mostly to our lack of a car and the fact that he lives so far out. Still I normally just say fuck it and move on, but he knows I've been bored off my ass and I find out he's been in town for like 3 days but hasn't even called to hang out(not to mention he's been partyin while he was here).

GC... I'm not a stupid person(or atleast I like to think I'm not) and it would seem to me that my friends kinda suck. I don't wanna be a recluse but currently I feel like I only have two friends that I can count on, and I feel chill with me for the sole purpose of chillin with me. One of them lives out of state and the other on the other side of town... I need to make new friends I think. I don't know who I'm gonna hang out with(I'm pretty sociable but I was never great at making friends). I don't start school for another moment and I can't think of a single friend I've met through just randomly running up and talking to them(although I've done this from time to time).

GC I'm confused as to what I should do here, my current plan is to just sit back and see if they call me. I think I'm gonna take a t-break from smoking till they offer me some(or atleast not smoke with them). Fuck man, I was always paranoid about stupid shit like this so I don't know if it's just my paranoia creeping in or if I'm justified in my thoughts and possible actions.

I'd like your input....

Just be serious with them and be like, "Dude, I'm running low on cash, can you pay for the bud today?" or something like that, and if they refuse to do so, than I would say fuck off and find new friends.

Invite them over for "a toke". Once they're all inside, lock the doors and windows (preferably every entryway with the press of a single button if possible, because it's really sinister and awesome). "I'm sorry guys, I lied, I don't actually have any pot. But I do have....YAHTZEE!" When they try to escape the impending mediocrity, slay them with your Mithril Claymore of Frozen Nordlands. That'll teach them to steal your cable.

Just be serious with them and be like, "Dude, I'm running low on cash, can you pay for the bud today?" or something like that, and if they refuse to do so, than I would say fuck off and find new friends.

That's not even the point really, I could careless about paying for things. The thing that I actually care about is it appears to me like I only see them when I have bud or something of that nature. Almost as if they don't hang out with me if I'm not helpin them get fucked up.

That's not even the point really, I could careless about paying for things. The thing that I actually care about is it appears to me like I only see them when I have bud or something of that nature. Almost as if they don't hang out with me if I'm not helpin them get fucked up.

lol sorry, kinda missed the point there. But anyways, I'd go with your plan and just tell them that you don't have any weed and see where it goes from there. If they are your real friends, they should still want to chill or something.

If you just ignore everything they do that bothers you they will keep doing it and obviously they try to take advantage of the situation of you just saying "fuck it" when they just try to use you. You should call them out on it. Go with your gut instinct.

i dont think anything i said makes sense but im to fucked up, i hope you get what i am trying to say.

Bad friends are like a bad rash, they never seem to go away.

Honestly bro, if you are not feeling them as friends anymore due to their actions and their potential motives then maybe it is best that you no longer speak to them. No need to tell them to fuck off but if they are in town and are partying without you then maybe they just look at you as someone they can take advantage of or manipulate as opposed to being friends for the sake of being friends.

It sucks being around broke people who don't contribute, but if they are cool people otherwise, I have no problem smoking them out for the most part.

New to the City. My name's April. Do you have any advice that would help??

That's not even the point really, I could careless about paying for things. The thing that I actually care about is it appears to me like I only see them when I have bud or something of that nature. Almost as if they don't hang out with me if I'm not helpin them get fucked up.

I got the same problem but somepeople are just like that, they only want to hang to smoke with people. Just ask them if you want to hang out and tell them you got no bud, if they say no then ditch there asses and if they say ok, then you know you got good friends.

Invite them over for "a toke". Once they're all inside, lock the doors and windows (preferably every entryway with the press of a single button if possible, because it's really sinister and awesome). "I'm sorry guys, I lied, I don't actually have any pot. But I do have....YAHTZEE!" When they try to escape the impending mediocrity, slay them with your Mithril Claymore of Frozen Nordlands. That'll teach them to steal your cable.

LMAO! Yahtzee! Fuck, thats evil.

Invite them over for "a toke". Once they're all inside, lock the doors and windows (preferably every entryway with the press of a single button if possible, because it's really sinister and awesome). "I'm sorry guys, I lied, I don't actually have any pot. But I do have....YAHTZEE!" When they try to escape the impending mediocrity, slay them with your Mithril Claymore of Frozen Nordlands. That'll teach them to steal your cable.

couldnt have said it better

i don't want to be mean or rude or w.e but they are obviously using you and not your friends..Its ok because im in the same boat, just a month ago all my buddy's ditched me for their own friends, so i got stuck all alone for the summer. But hey it was shitty but things are looking up a bit because i stayed sort of positive and said to my self they ain't worth my time and fuck them and chasing them n shit..As for finding new friends you defiantly have a chance, i just met a new good friend at summer school and we have been chillin clubin parting just the two of us and having a good time. Just go to new places, stay positive, and talk to people, thats obviously the only way to change this situation, its hard but with patients and hard work it will pay off. If your a good person and loyal people will see that, i also suggest not having any friends that smoke because smoking will always raise these using issues n stuff, just smoke by your self and have all your friends be non smokers (thats what i did and it worked great). Good luck

I was thinking about doing that with one of my friends when I realized that he and his crowd only came over to our house when we had liquor, weed, or anything they could drink, snort, swallow, rail, shoot or inject rectally to get them fucked up.

He spared me the trouble of telling him that when he beat my sister to hell, though. I haven't seen him since then.

So called friends will fuck you every time. I have lots of "acquaintances" but very very few "friends". I think you truly mature when you realize the difference between the two.

Invite them over for "a toke". Once they're all inside, lock the doors and windows (preferably every entryway with the press of a single button if possible, because it's really sinister and awesome). "I'm sorry guys, I lied, I don't actually have any pot. But I do have....YAHTZEE!" When they try to escape the impending mediocrity, slay them with your Mithril Claymore of Frozen Nordlands. That'll teach them to steal your cable.

yup..thats my new sig, its fuckin hilarious plot mixed with a lot of wtf and a lil bit of mmo nerdage...ha perfect

I used to have a lot of what i thought were good friends of mine, until i realized that thye were using me, for weed, money, anything.
I got rid of these friends, but sooner or later they came right back.

tell em to fuck off, you wont regret it, and if you do, that will fade eventually.
Those are the poeple that you dont want to be around.

I am an extremely generous person and i try to be as nice as i can to everyone,
these kids didnt appreciate shit.
Thye never paid me back or threw in cash for anything.
Broke fucking bastards.

I dont consider barly anyone friends anymore.
I dont feel like i can trust people like that,.

Mexico is calling your name..

sorta similar shit was going on with my friends. When i came back from college, our relationship was entirely different, because they stayed here. I always knew their personalities, and knew they were kind of douchbags, but they weren't like that with me cuz they were my friends. When i got back this summer it was kind of different. I still consider them my friends, but i gave up on calling them to hang out. They'll call me sorta often to blaze, and i'll normally go blaze with em, as long as their throwing down which they do. I would tell em to fuck off, but i think this solution is working well enough, plus im going back to school in 2 months.

They complain about how much their life sucks because they are "over" high school shit, and feel like they are more mature than even the kids that went to college. But the shit they talk and complain about proves that while all their friends went away and grew up, they stayed the same. They are a lot more "high school" then they think

Just call em up and be like you wanna smoke me out. I'll smoke ya out later or some shit. If they don't then they trying to mooch off ya. Also studies show that you are lucky if you find 3 "CLOSE" friends in your lifetime. All you need is one close friend really.