ok GC, need big help here. Girl problems.

[lennyjr358]

ok so here's the story. i fell in love with my girl. we started talking about our future together and getting married and whatnot. then a few days ago she tells me it's over. because i get irritated and angry pretty quickly. never to the point where i would endanger her. just i would get mad at her for small insignificant things. i've never been like that with anyone before. i'm always the nice guy. but over the past 2 days she went from "we are never going to be together" to "i love you but i don't know what i want". my thoughts are always "well then obviously she doesn't want me".

now, theres this other girl who i liked for a while before i started dating my gf. and she likes me. i know she would probably treat me better, but at the same time i wouldn't be able to see her as much as i'd like to because of distance. (not too far but for me with no car it makes getting most places difficult). also i am still very much in love with my ex and want to be with her more than anything. do you think i should wait for my ex to decide what she wants and hope for the best or start over with this new girl?

i've been on the verge of suicide only making it from day to day because of a few close friends, so that should tell you how much i love this girl

and thank you anyone who reads all of this and helps me out.

[PhoenixPharmer]

You'll be fine. Wait it out, she'll come around.

They always do. If she loves you, which she says she does, obviously.

She'll be back.

[LucySD420]

sounds like she just wanted a short break. keep with the girl u talked about ur future with. just be patient.

[JollyRoger227]

Well I hope firstly your girl leaving you isn't the reason you feel suicidal, it's not worth it man, trust me.

And it hurts to let go of people that you love, but if you think you can do better, you have to try

[Hanky danky]

Just let it play out, killing yourself is not going to help anything and you would be really fucking selfish to do that to the people who love you. My best friend killed himself over some stupid shit when he was drunk and not thinking straight.. There is no coming back from that shit so dont be a dumb ass. I am not trying to be an ass but I know how it is to loose someone, actually 5 friends within the last 3 years. Just smoke a bowl and chill out. There will always be other girls if it doesnt work out.

[lennyjr358]

i just feel like shit every minute of every day.my body has been rejecting all forms of food for the last 3 days. i have about 30 minutes of sleep max. i haven't even been motivated enough to shower i am a mess. i'm thinking this all has something to do with the recent passing of her grandfather i feel horrible about that because the day he died i was 4 hours away without a way back. i just feel lost without her.

[C12]

man, a broken relationship is no reason to become suicidal, maybe it adds to whatever stress you are facing, but it happens.. you simply have to learn from your relationship and move on.. smoke some bowls and go hang out with your friends, it will get your mind off of her. have a good time with them =)

[madmike420]

Originally Posted by lennyjr358

i just feel like shit every minute of every day.my body has been rejecting all forms of food for the last 3 days. i have about 30 minutes of sleep max. i haven't even been motivated enough to shower i am a mess. i'm thinking this all has something to do with the recent passing of her grandfather i feel horrible about that because the day he died i was 4 hours away without a way back. i just feel lost without her.

Been there done that, life goes on!

[JesusC]

Heres my advice...


Stay away from relationships until you get your mind right. Theres few women on the face of this earth that are worth killing yourself for, and the ones that are will never make you feel that way....trust me.

[JollyRoger227]

Originally Posted by lennyjr358

i just feel like shit every minute of every day.my body has been rejecting all forms of food for the last 3 days. i have about 30 minutes of sleep max. i haven't even been motivated enough to shower i am a mess. i'm thinking this all has something to do with the recent passing of her grandfather i feel horrible about that because the day he died i was 4 hours away without a way back. i just feel lost without her.

It'll pass dude, trust me, I was with the guy of my dreams on and off for years and now it's over and it took me a LONG time to get over him, I'm not gunna lie, part of me still isn't but some things just weren't meant to be

[JesusC]

My advice (Part 2): Watch "swingers"......