Advice needed on some girl trouble

[aktokin]

Is it normal for me to be with a girl that flirts with every guy she knows, calls them all "hunnie, darling, sweetheart" and says "I love you" to them? She says she doesnt mean any of it. She says she loves me...And sometimes I believe it. But it hurts so fucking much knowing how she talks to other guys. I can't stand knowing that practically any guy interested, thinks that they can get with her. Makes me feel so fuckin worthless. Am I crazy for staying with her? I havn't posted in a LONG time..But I just needed to vent I guess

[What'sThatSmell]

I've known too many girls like that.
I fucking hate it.
It's not paranoia, it's their fault for being so damn flirty.
I'm not trying to sound like a dick but your relationship probably won't have a happy ending..
Or maybe it will, if she changes eventually..

[Vicious]

Best thing to do is talk to her about it.

[Magick]

talk to her about the situation, jealousy is a natural human emotion and she should understand that, and if she truly does love you, she will accept that fact and will adjust to make you feel more comfortable.

[aktokin]

We have talked about it. She said she would change. I can't keep pretending shes trying to change. Because nothing has happened.

[Magick]

well if that's the case, when she says that to another guy and u get upset, just think, who's the one that she's willing to give the name of boyfriend too?

[aktokin]

Yeah I try to think like that. She reminds me that shes dating me, not them. But I can't stand hearing her say those things. I don't know why it bothers me, maybe it shouldn't. I just feel completely worthless when she talks to other guys exactly like she talks to me. When she says "I Love you" to me...It actually makes me feel like shit. Because i'm reminded of every other guy she says it too on a daily basis.

It's wierd cause I've never felt like this with other girlfriends. I never minded my ex's flirting or whatever. But with her...It kills me inside. I feel so fuckin emo but whatever, I don't even care anymore.

[JollyRoger227]

I know a lot of girls who just call everyone hun or sweetie, sometimes I slip out a sweetie at the end of a sentence, but that's pretty rare.

If it bothers you that much, talk to her about it, if she's not a real flirt she may not even realize she's doing it as much as she is, some people are just like that

But if you feel worthless in the relationship, is it really even worth being in it?