Giiiiirls - Advice Needed :)

[Thrill]

Hey guys, this is another advice thread about girls, as you can obviously tell from the title, so here it goes:

First of all, I consider myself a very outgoing person. I'm rarely shy around people. Anyway, there's this girl in my history class, who is honestly, probably the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. So instead of sitting next to her and talking to her (which is what I would normally do), I sit across the room, and stare at her, in a non-creepy way. If there's such a thing.

So, after 2 months of staring at her and making stupid faces and shit, she ended up talking to me. So it actually worked! I got her number last thursday and I'm supposed to hang out with her today. My question is, when I call her, what should I ask her to do? Go get food? Hang out at my place? Any advice is much appreciated!

And normally shit like this isn't really a problem with me. I'm not the best with girls, but I can hold my own ;-) I'm just super nervous with this chick because she's gorgeous. Anyway, thanks for any help!

[Ezav420]

smoke a blunt! THEN get food.sounds perfect to me

[goro the puffer]

Yeah, smoking helps.. Just breathe.. and stop thinking about her all the time. Just flow with it. I know, it's easier said than done.

[JohnnyWeedSeed]

take her out somewhere that you normally wouldint think of. maby the zoo or to the beach if you live near one and its nice weather or a walk in the park. try somthing unconventional that would set you apart from the flood of guys that would normally be after her.

[What'sThatSmell]

I don't see how her beauty is causing you anxiety about how to act with her.
You can only put on an act for so long in a relationship..
It's easier to just be yourself.

[slippersman.]

Does she smoke trees? ask her if she wants to blaze and go for a walk or something. If not try like taking her to an ice rink or some shit.

[whitewarrior]

Take her to a coffeeshop and talk to her bro, you have to build MORE attraction in order to get into her beliefs and such.

[Bluntzilla420]

Take her to the candy shop

[isparkmygreens]

Thats the worst advice i have ever heard. Maybe she is anti-weed and will be turned off by that. Telling her you smoke I'snt a very good "first date" decision. Maybe a few 4:20 jokes when you get to know each other a lil ( Holds his fingers up to measure a tiny air distance.) more.

[CaliCoast]

The best advice I can give you really simple actually but I think it works the best. BE YOURSELF. I see a lot of guys trying way too hard to either impress a chick or trying to act like somebody they are not. I guess we all do that a little at first when we meet a chick we really dig. But I would just say relax and be yourself man, chicks dig that.

[Digit]

my advice...


take her off that fucking pedistal and be honest, i mean really honest. not jsut honest with her, but honest with yourself too. includes sayin shit like, "i'm really nervous" or even tell her about this thread if you like! be really genuine. be really authenitically you. if you fuck up on the honest thing you could eitehr mess it up with someone who's so totally right for you, or end up with someone who's so totally wrong for you. so the more honestly being you you can be the better. n then once u start out that way, the rest becomes so much more easy, so much more relaxed.


to be clear again:

take her off the pedistal.

be very very honest.







-edit-
breath. yeah, thats far better advice and far less obvious than u wud likely think.

[4lawlor4]

Originally Posted by Digit

my advice...


take her off that fucking pedistal and be honest, i mean really honest. not jsut honest with her, but honest with yourself too. includes sayin shit like, "i'm really nervous" or even tell her about this thread if you like! be really genuine. be really authenitically you. if you fuck up on the honest thing you could eitehr mess it up with someone who's so totally right for you, or end up with someone who's so totally wrong for you. so the more honestly being you you can be the better. n then once u start out that way, the rest becomes so much more easy, so much more relaxed.


to be clear again:

take her off the pedistal.

be very very honest.







-edit-
breath. yeah, thats far better advice and far less obvious than u wud likely think.

yea girls love honesty and you just need to chill for a little while dude, and being honest with her will def help that

[skywalker]

take her out for coffee and start up a nice conversation on something you guys both like. you don't have to be yourself, but it's easier. and have fun


edit: digit has it right on the money

[IGotTheCottons]

Originally Posted by JohnnyWeedSeed

take her out somewhere that you normally wouldint think of. maby the zoo or to the beach if you live near one and its nice weather or a walk in the park. try somthing unconventional that would set you apart from the flood of guys that would normally be after her.

Def. good advice man... Most girls don't like the typical "dinner-n-movie" kinda shit... Think of something uncommon, and something that will allow you two to get to know each other better.

[Digit]

haha, woo! i got it right. boy am i chuffed to bits with that [getting this right].

i think thats the first time i've given the advice to take women/a woman off the pedistal...

... because its something i only recently learned myself.


"it aint no big thang dawg"... someone elses advice to me. basically the same vain. 'cept i reccon i was havin more anxiety issues than the op here. n thus why i also echoed the call to BREATHE! aint nuthin simpler nor more important.