Don't listen to your auntie.
Picking buds off while a mj plant is budding will not help it in anyway.
It seems you have a Hermie(this means your plant is both a male and a female)
Now assuming this is your only plant then let it carry on doing what its doing. You will get some result if it makes it through to harvest time however the bud you will get will be full of seeds. Never the less its your first grow and some bud is better than none.
Let us know how it gets on.
Good luck!
PS.
Keep your dog away