Newb ?

[KzooTazer76]

im about a week into flowering 3 plants (soil) in my closet, i have struggled thru some learning curves but right now ive got a 28" 19" and 17" the biggest had looked like a sativa strain(used bag seeds from countless sacks) and the 2 smaller ones grew much slower with wider fan leaves, at the tops and right below of my smaller semihealthy plants ive gotten buds with pistils shooting out female buds rite?
, ::::::: BUT ON my larger plant at the internodes? where the plant branches out im getting new growth but no pistils, and no female lookin buds at the tops like the ones on my smaller 2...DOES this mean that big plant is a male.... and if so what the best way to remove it since theyre all in a connected box of soil .....i kno my lighting is not suffeicent 1 150w incandesant "grow bulb" 1-slyvania daybright 30w CFL and a 37 watt flouresent desk lamp that is actually quite bright.......... YIKES thanks for any help out there first grow BUT IGOT buds rite?

[Homergrower]

I wouldn't remove until you are sure, a pic would help of the plant.

THe plant may not have shown sex yet if it's a different strain,

If the plant is male, you will see little seed pods in the forks.

If the plant is male, snip it off as close to the soil as possible and carefully remove without shaking it too much.
Put it in the sink-o-rator or mulch it up.