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dirtybongwater · #3 (**permalink**) 01-31-2006, 02:50 PM

General Blaze is right! Your Dad doesn't hate you or your brother, he's just upset and scared. Getting a DUI today isn't like getting one 15 years ago. It can really hurt your brother and some of the things he tries to do with his young life.

If your brother was more responsible and didn't drink and drive none of this would be happening. Are you sure you want to place all the blame on your Dad? Your Dad is making your brother be responsible for his own mistake. I'm not saying you have to do the same thing or change your relationship with your brother. You just need to make sure you are more responsible. Don't put yourself in a position to get caught smoking weed (like by the po-po or a friend's parent). The more maturity and respect you show your Dad, the more he will come around...

Not trying to be a bummer and I have nothing against your brother. It's tough living with parents sometimes, but you need to give respect before you get it.

Good luck man. I hope everything gets better soon.

#3 (permalink) 01-31-2006, 02:50 PM
dirtybongwater Pot Ninja Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: ^j^ Posts: 5,467	General Blaze is right! Your Dad doesn't hate you or your brother, he's just upset and scared. Getting a DUI today isn't like getting one 15 years ago. It can really hurt your brother and some of the things he tries to do with his young life. If your brother was more responsible and didn't drink and drive none of this would be happening. Are you sure you want to place all the blame on your Dad? Your Dad is making your brother be responsible for his own mistake. I'm not saying you have to do the same thing or change your relationship with your brother. You just need to make sure you are more responsible. Don't put yourself in a position to get caught smoking weed (like by the po-po or a friend's parent). The more maturity and respect you show your Dad, the more he will come around... Not trying to be a bummer and I have nothing against your brother. It's tough living with parents sometimes, but you need to give respect before you get it. Good luck man. I hope everything gets better soon. __________________ 1. Signature Limits: All signatures should not exceed the following size limits, and you can't have both text and images. Text Signatures: 4 lines normal size OR 8 lines small size and up to 90 chars per line. Font sizes above 2 are not allowed. For images in signatures: 1 image up to 300 pixels wide, 125 pixels tall and 20k in size.