"I wouldn't know where to start on a legal attack. The P.A. department is supposed to be representing me (on child support only) and they seem more concerned about doing things to suit him. They are takin him to court on two child support cases and JUST figured that one out!!"
stonie jo, go to a search engine and type in "child support". You will see a list of agencies and groups that will tie into the ex like a pit-bull!!! Finally there is some help out there for people trying to catch up with deadbeat parents ( Notice I didn't say deadbeat Dads, there are women out there skipping out on paying the support for their children too! )
It's NONE of your ex's freakin' business whether the man you're with has a job or not!!!!!!!! I love and support "T" 100%, but that has NO bearing on the responsibilities of his worthless father!!!!!! That's the ONLY reason he wants me to adopt "T", so he can escape his responsibility!! Just as soon as "T" makes that descision I'll PROUDLY, legally make him my son, but I refuse to "buy" him!!!!!!!!