[sodomizedjello]

well...

firstly, you really should put paragraphs in longer posts. makes 'em easier to read.

secondly, you might want to clarify that you are indeed over eighteen. it's just not very clear in your post.

thirdly, it's your life. i completely understand wanting them to trust you and whatnot, but with weed.. shit gets mixed up. they want what's best for you, and to them, that means they don't want you to smoke weed. there's probably no convincing them otherwise. therefore, you're best option is to smoke without them knowing. if you believe that smoking is bad and it's negatively affecting your life, then quit. but if you can use weed in healthy ways, then smoke, there's no problem. it's really easy to not get caught, you just got to think about it.