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Scroll, I'd reccommend that book I mentioned in the OP again. Buhda Zen Toa and Tantra the Spiritual Path by OSHO.
You're going to have face the fear of failure if not relating with girls is bothering you that badly. I get like that sometimes, but I've matured out of that stage. THANK GOD. All that thinking you'll never get a girl again is such bullshit, believe me bro, I had the SAME thoughts.
Any dude with confidence can mack bitches. If you're good looking enough to have girls approach you, you're good enough to have girls say yes to you.
Here's the deal man, you have to recognize the problem and face and address it. Period. If you don't, meds are the only direction to go. If there is a real problem, it can be solved, it's not going to be easy, but it can be done.
Finding the problem is what is the key. If the key problem is women, address the fucking problem and quit letting it beat you up. Dude, not to be sexist, but the VAST majority of girls are bags of shit anyways man. Ok, the vast majority of PEOPLE are, but girls just fits this example. Remember that if a girl rejects you it really doesn't mean much, especially if you're not friends with her to begin with.
Don't know much else to tell you. If you can't enter the problem, it's not going to go away.
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