[smokingjoe68]

hey all. I'm a long time smoker/ new grower. anyways, to say the least, I was very excited to recently harvest a cola of some size (16 inches). I had a friend for about 10 years now, that lives about 150 miles from me now. we used to work together way back when, the night shift, every morning we'd go for our morning "toast". he had even dated my sister a few times, which may be part of the equation.

about a year ago, I was staying not to far from him. I had recently went through an ugly break up and was staying at a motel, we were working at the same place. one afternoon, my sister had some family related info to get to me, and left a message at work for me to call her when I got off. I tried and couldn't call her from my motel room. without thinking that it might be a problem, I called my friend and asked him to call my sister and ask her to call me at my room. keep in mind, my sister lives 200 miles from us at the time and is happily married with 4 children. anyways my friends wife kind of freaks out, and tells me don't come around any more. the next day she calls me back to apologize and all seems ok.

about a year later, I've been keeping it a secret from my best friend that I'm growing. we've talked about it in the past, but that's it. I bought a big ole jar so I could cure this monster cola in tact, and take it down there to smoke him and his wife out. they both smoke about 10 times what I smoke. when I get there, I'm like, " I got a little nug I brought down to share with ya'll if you like", he's like, " sure, I guess", but I see an uneasy look on his face. so I go out to the truck to get my backpack. when I walk back in his wife says, "you might as well walk right back out the way you came in, and don't come back". so I left, I never stay where I'm not wanted.

well this all blew my mind. I'm not really bummed about it. I mean, I try put to myself in my friends place, and I know I wouldn't have done things the same. I don't know that the phone call to my sister that I asked him to make was the source of hate for me, but it was the only friction ever between us. I just chalk it up to the fact that he's just not as good a friend as I thought he was, my bad. peace ya'll

oh yeah, don't drive around with a big ole cola in a back pack, that stuff really starts to reak on a nice day, lol.