the only thing in your whole post that i can see the Doc is for sure responsible for is not answering his email which i agree sucks. you may have a local post office worker that knows what is up and is snagging your orders every time. have you tried to get help at the Doc's message board
www.hg420.com? don't get me wrong, i'd be pissed as hell too, but calling Doc a thief, crook, liar and all that shit seems out of line at this point.