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Originally Posted by seedleSs_stoner
hey, before you read, only put serious advice and input down. im coming here for help not criticism;
i am 18, 19 in april, just so you know the age if that can specify your advice.
a couple days ago i was with friends at a party and hooked up with some chick( just making out and that kinda stuff). the thing is is that i have a gf. i havent told her. today, she told me that she kissed some guy and that she didnt mean to. she wasnt drunk. i broke up with her for it. she cried and balled and did that whole deal, you guys know...and now about 3 hours later i feel like shit. i really do love her and she said she the same. blah...she hooked up with me a little over 3 months ago while she had her old bf, and i told her i wasnt gunna date her because she cheated on him with me, and she could do the same to me. after a while i started to trust her and started dating. now she hooked up with some guy. she said it was just a kiss but then again i will never find out. im asking for serious advice only. what should i do? does it level out because i cheated also? should i take her back? or no. if i do, what should i do abotu the trust issue? is there a way i could get her to show me she really cares and that she wont do that again? i know i wont because i realized shes more to me than what i thought. input?
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She isn't worth your time and effort.
She has manipulated you to feel sorry for her, which is the first sign that she is trying to control the situation. Plus, she has cheated already, both on her old boyfriend and now on you; why shouldn't she do it again, now she has been forgiven?
And the trust thing..... if you don't have it at just three months, and you have both cheated already, it isn't meant to be; neither of you clearly really love the other, or this would not have happened.
Move on. You deserve better. And take care not to give your heart so quickly.